Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Well, I just got done grabbing a piece of looseleaf paper, a pen and putting my thoughts down on paper...to my "wife."
I put it all out there tonight. I told her that I can't take the anger anymore, as it has affected our kids to much. I wrote two pages...front and back...
I'm done with the bullshit. She is a bitter, pissed off 36 year old woman. She is a wonderful mother, but not a wonderful wife...
I am a wonderful husband and the most awesome, cool and perfect human being in the whole world...I am perfect...yeah dog...
see how i try to throw in humor at the end to divert attention to my real feelings...i always do that shit...
I put it all out there tonight. I told her that I can't take the anger anymore, as it has affected our kids to much. I wrote two pages...front and back...
I'm done with the bullshit. She is a bitter, pissed off 36 year old woman. She is a wonderful mother, but not a wonderful wife...
I am a wonderful husband and the most awesome, cool and perfect human being in the whole world...I am perfect...yeah dog...
see how i try to throw in humor at the end to divert attention to my real feelings...i always do that shit...
If she is already "bitter," don't you think the natural reaction would be more bitterness?
Good luck :)
P.S. Wanna write another letter? I'll tell ya where to mail it to. Or hell,...you could prolly just xerox yours.. that'll do just fine ;)
-Your 'da best.
-NC
I wish more people would talk on DS, rather than just read...
that's why i post stupid shit...to get people involved, to begin the healing process...
Oh that commerical just popped in my head Jenny. LoL.
Lynne
One night, after being on DS way too long, I fell asleep with the document still open for the world to see. Well, almost ex came in, read it, and waited about 3-4 days to ask me who I was sending our life history to. He just thought I was sending an email to someone about us. He didn't even "get it".
I'm sick of what we've put our sons through ... I won't do it any longer.
I've written many and mailed them. He's read them and still doesn't get it.....It felt good to write them but it seems to make things even worse that he still doesn't understand what he's done.
Best of luck....maybe she will understand.
In the immortal words of Queen, "The show must go on".
Now hand me some tofu pizza would you?