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Got $30,000.00 to spend help, ideas??

happywannab
happywannab
Ok new thought going through my head, My new job comes with a $30,000.00 sign on bonus! Yes $30,000.00 just to take the job. And I am still crying over looser men? WTF!! I have ALWAYS done the right and responsible thing, ALWAYS!! I know I should payoff some things, put it in savings and help with my son's school costs. Probably will but... help me think of some interesting options for spending the money. Forget "the right things". My turn to live! Hmmm what to do. After all it is free moeny I am going to make enough to pay my bills so help me dream and consider more irresponsible, fun options. I deserve to at least consider some of them, don't I?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Take a trip with a good friend. Forget life for a few days.
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
well first off....don't give it to stbx...lol
I agree with 4queens.You deserve some good living here(by the way I'm adoptable if you can't find anything else to do with the leftovers)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think you need to consider helping out your good friend Sandy ;-0
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, and a trip would not be out of the question for me
happywannab
happywannab
Sandy, Deb, do you two get along? I would hate to get thrown out of Hedonism in Jamamcia because the two of you got into it! We could rent some cababa boys and get out grooves back!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Deb and I are best buds, aren't we Deb, huh Deb?
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
Happy...I get along with everyone except stbx...but we all know he is just your ordinary fucktard(who said that?)...anyways...back to our trip....I'm packing as we speak....can we forget the cabana guy.....we can just drink ourselves silly and gawk at the tourist guys(less trouble)....where did you say we are going?(checking my passport)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Awesome!! Congratulations.

A trip for you and if you have a mortgage put about $10k in as a big lump payment. No mortgage, keep about $10k for a downpayment.

A singles cruise with a girlfriend. Don't pay for her though.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Spend wisely and be prudent you BRAGGER YOU!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok changing my mind.... Deb and I will NOT get along unless we get to have the cabana guy!! Deb, you can just watch you know.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh my gosh, happy! What do you do, and where can I sign up?

Congrats! Thats a nice chunk of change.

I like the idea of a trip as well. Or treat yourself to a nice piece of jewelry.

Have fun!
happywannab
happywannab
Deb you could just look if you like. Me and Sandy I think will find some hot guys to service us. It's ok if you pay for them, isn't it? Then they have to do what you say and can't judge you. LOL You know I am all talk but with enough Tequila who knows, no cameras allowed!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can come with Mel to Texas and spend it on us! Teeheeeee...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Okay, how about the following fun things (and girl, I KNOW how to spend money!!!):

1.) buy a new car (one you've always wanted)

2.) go on a cruise, I love cruises....food ALL THE TIME!!

3.) buy a whole new fab-o wardrobe, designers you've always wanted, a few new suits, NEW SHOES!!!

4.) Go crazy on Christmas shopping!

5.) Find a local charity group doing Adopt A Family for Christmas and shop for a family. (this one always brings home to me the true feelings for Christmas)

6.) new furniture?

7.) Attend at least 3 DS meetups!

Ohhhh....how about a Blue Ray, a new Flat screen TV for your BATHROOM??? hee hee!
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
Ok OK...have the cabana guys...I will just watch with a drink in hand!!!
(and I thought Sandy was my friend...lol)