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grizzlyAdams24 08/01/2012

Well do you ever have just a really vivid dream you think is perfect and real? then you wake up.

Had one of thems last night and totally fucked my morning up! Mornings are already hard enough! Stupid subconscious!

deleted_user 08/01/2012

Yeah. I had a dream that support payments were over.

They aren't. :(

MettaBhavana 08/01/2012

Yes, this is common after a breakup and is very upsetting. Now that I think about it, it's been a long time (months) since I've had one of the dreams, so they seem to stop or decrease over time. We had another thread about this recently:

http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/14637504-dreams

grizzlyAdams24 08/01/2012

I figured I wasn't the only one. And I apologize for repeating, I'm only on my third day here.

deleted_user 08/01/2012

Take what you need, give what you can.

It's all good.

MettaBhavana 08/01/2012

Grizzly--I didn't mean to make you feel bad about bringing up the same topic--just thought the other thread might be of interest to you. I think the fact that the same topics come up just means that a lot of us are going through similar things--which is comforting to know!

grizzlyAdams24 08/01/2012

Metta, you didnt make me feel bad at all! I just dont want to annoy anyone haha.
Yea it is very comforting to have people that are going through similar situations, and can still offer kindness and advice.
I just hope these dreams stop soon! Maybe I'll try sleeping without melatonin for a little since it causes such vivid dreams.

deleted_user 08/01/2012

I'm on 40 days and i have dreams every night..or rather nightmares...he comes back but he's not the same he's mena and spitefull..it's been 6 days of NC and i'm dying..i think he forgot about me...well he did necause he left..

deleted_user 08/01/2012

I've had them too.

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