Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Z and I were hugging it out, regarding how people find their passion again. I think this is a very important part of ultimately moving on from the pain and sadness of the breakup.
I used to be the type of person who would always go out with friends. I don't do that anymore and haven't in quite a while. I lost my passion. I believe it is crucial for me to bring this back into my life. Even if it's just going out to a game on the weekend, I have to find my passion for life again. DS can only do so much (except for if you're banned, then it can't do anything)...but anyway...
What is your passion? How are you going to bring it back into your life? Do you like pizza?
I used to be the type of person who would always go out with friends. I don't do that anymore and haven't in quite a while. I lost my passion. I believe it is crucial for me to bring this back into my life. Even if it's just going out to a game on the weekend, I have to find my passion for life again. DS can only do so much (except for if you're banned, then it can't do anything)...but anyway...
What is your passion? How are you going to bring it back into your life? Do you like pizza?
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
I loved art in almost any form. creating it, viewing it, talking about it.
I loved working with my hands - being creative.
I loved reading a good book.
I loved gardening and outside work around the house.
Now my days are spent only doing the necessities of life. Working and doing house repairs (not fun remodels)
As much as I want to do the things I had such a passion for my whole life, I don't know if I ever will again. The actual desire to do those things seems to have been sucked out of my body.
I know what you mean, by not going out.
I didn't do much of anything, outside of work the first month and a half after I helped her move out.
But about 4 weeks ago went out with a friend of mine and his GF for a fundraiser dinner. It was very uplifting!!
I felt so great I couldn't believe it.
It made me feel good for days.
Ever since then I have been going out once a week for dinners and such with my friends. They all know where I am at in life right now, and they are all supportive.
Make the first step, get out there and do something.
I lost a ton of my self esteem because of her and how she treated me, last Friday night went to a little bar around the corner from my house to see my buddies band play.
Found out, I still have what it takes, just have to realize it and enjoy it.
Yeah I like pizza. Eat it at least once a week.
Hang in there Rman
Z...wrong answer...It was full of my pee-pee...
I have a pee-pee...
Last Saturday I went to a party and we didn't leave the party until 3:30 a.m! We danced and laughed and we made a vow to get together at each different home once a month. I took poor mavs and she danced her adorable freckles off. We should be done pasting them back on by this next weekend during a road trip.
Yes, one day at a time....
One of my new ventures will be taking sewing classes. My mother is a certified designer and worked with some high level designers and had her own boutique and yet, she never taught my sister and I how to sew. Sigh....
I want to visit my country of birth.
I want to get healthy again.
I need a beginning....