I have been with the wrong people are different times in my life. Its not a lot of fun.
Do you have children?
Divorce is never easy, but sometimes its the best solution. Have you had a very honest conversation about how you feel.

I've had many. I tell him he makes me feel horrible, and suicide goes through my mind with how he makes me feel. He just says he doesn't mean it - and that's that! End of the discussion. I cried last week because i felt so bad and he kinda just acted as if it wasn't happening but trying to be cheery. Thankfully we gave no children. I think that's what has hit me hard -i very much want children, but the thought of children with him fills me with dred. You've experienced this?

Have you gone to therapy for just yourself?

That often times helps give you some professional
Prospective of your situation. Many times we Can
not look in to see whats happening in our Own lives.

Many times we marry what we come from and that
is not what we intended and we also had needed to
get away from it not marry into it. HUGS

He's nothing like anyone in my family. He used to be more kind, until I was diagnosed with depression. He has the empathetic capacity of a teaspoon. I haven't been to therapy. He doesn't see a problem and he controls the purse strings, lol. I have spoken to my doctor before, and she said she doesn't think we are compatible and went as far as suggesting a break up, which surprised me. I have only been married 2 months and feel like I have made the biggest mistake of my life

Narcissism or emotional manipulator of some
Sort is coming to my mind, i am Not a therapist.
Do what ever is in your own best Interest.

There is also a great site on here, they are
Filled with knowledge. There are many red
flags from Your post. Tread very carefully.

Physical and emotional abuse forum
https://www.dailystrength.org/group/physical-emotional-abuse

I have only joined about an hour ago so forgive my ignorance, is that just another group? Similar thoughts have crossed mt mind, thank you for your time!

Usually a narcisstic will find a sweet loving
codependent, Thats their usual target group.

Sounds like your body is talking to you and you
Are listening. That is called your gut or intuition
Speaking. Listen to it.

Yes that is another support group on here. Many
On there have walked those paths. Hugs

I have been married for over 12 years to an alcoholic. Didn't realize he was at the time. I knew very early one that something was wrong. He was outright cruel to me, something I never before had experienced. I have stayed because I love him but had I known it would never get better, I would have left years ago. So I'm still with him and miserable. Drag him to counseling and trust your gut.

Do not take an abuser to joint therapy,
It is not recommended. Alone therapy
Only. HUGS

Therapy isn't really a big thing in the UK. Is it bad that i feel beyond the point of even wanting therapy? I don't want it. I want to get out. I want to be myself and be happy about it

Many here in US do Marriage counseling as
A last resort to fix their marriage. Sometimes
It works if both are willing and there is still
love.

It is not recommended going with an active
addict or an Abuser. Whats the point? HUGS

Get out now, take the time to heal yourself. If you were diagnosed with depression, you should seek help.
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/pages/free-therapy-or-counselling.aspx
Please don't do couples therapy, in most cases it isn't beneficial.

Is there any possibility of an annulment after so short a time being married?

Not here I'm afraid. I think it would be a case of full on divorce, which sucks. It will take one year with consent, 2 years without. What a mistake

Don't keep thinking a mistake. We all make them. I'm separating from my husband and I still love him. My choice as he's mentally ill but I can't cope. We have a child too so he comes first. Anyway seems like the mistake is to not act. Be brave like me and we deserve happiness don't we?!!