Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Saffy92 02/20/2017

I have no idea what I'm doing but I guess we all find our ways to cope. My husband left me 6 months ago. Told he doesn't love me anymore so suddenly and my entire world got turned upside down. He was my family, my future, my world. Even though he has hurt me like I never believed would be possible I miss him. I'd trade anything to have my life with him back. Today I filled out my own divorce petition, something I never thought I'd have to do and I just can't deal with the pain it invokes. It scares me, I feel I won't ever be able to get past this.

ceaser 02/20/2017

I am so sorry what you are going threw and I know the feeling of your whole wold ending because of this and you have a right to feel betrayed and abandoned. It's going to be okay though, you have to stay strong and keep your mind busy. If he wants you out of his life than good ridence, why would you miss or care for someone that doesn't deserve you? You sound like a amazing person and I know you're gonna find someone who loves you so much and appreciates you for everything you have to offer. If you ever need someone to talk or vent to you can message me. You're in my prayers.

mirandac 02/20/2017

I am sorry for all your hurt and pain.

Glad you are being proactive with
The divorce so you can eventually
Emotionally move on.

Let yourself grieve your losses, get Into
therapy and divorce care is a great Group
for grief and the divorce process.

Keep reaching out to loving caring
Healthy people, churches are great at
This time too.

Keep posting on here, it Helps to vent
and offer and receive Support from others
going thru the Same things. We can burden
our supporters after awhile.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel it just
Takes time, healing, patience and self compassion
to get there, HUGS

tabatha 02/20/2017

I'm so sorry remember you are not alone.. all this pain will come and go for awhile and the be gone for good. I too am in the same situation as you I have my ok day and then I have my bad days ... it does help to vent on this site the people on here are so very supportive... hugs

Uncertain 02/21/2017

I know what your going through, and it sucks, but I do hope everyone is right about eventually it gets better, because right now it feels like your world is falling apart around you and you have no control over it. I am a person of faith and I do believe that everything happens for a reason, and just like myself, I believe when your ready and the time is right God will show you the reason that this has happened, and one day you will feel better and you will be able to forgive him and move forward. That's what I'm working on right now, and believe me it's not easy but just keep trying, keep moving forward everyday!

Deleon2020 02/23/2017

Hugs!! I can imagine what you're going through and I know many times words are easy to say but know that I feel your pain. Remember you're not alone, many of us either went through it or is going through some sort of pain. In my past I've always seemed to love others more than myself and because of that I would end up in hurt and lonely. To be honest unfortunately we can't control others we can only control the choices we make and how we allow others to treat us. I don't know where your faith in God stands, but I can tell you from my past it was until I found Him that I found true love. He gave it all for us, so seek him and I hope your find healing. Healing takes time but it helps make us stronger and overcome ALL barriers. Praying for you and hope you find peace. Blessings.

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