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Fast Forward - 1 Year from now

CMondo
CMondo
Where would you like to be? What would you like to do one year from today?

Vacation?
New House?
Living in a different State? Country? Stay Exactly the same?

I will start:

I would like to keep working where I am about 40 hours a week (and not one minute more!).

I would like to keep memories of the trip that I dream about.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It would like to have a job I like and build my house. Not going to happen
namaste02
namaste02
I cant wait for a year from now..

My love will have returned from fighting in Afghanistan.

Im not focused on the material side, but a new home, new Jeep and a vacation would be nice....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I WILL BE not would like to be in a Masters degree program. I will no longer feel like I lost part of me. And I will either be happy being alone or I will have met the love of my life.
deleted_user
deleted_user
dating! and having lots of relaxed, drama-free fun doing it!

I'd love to be on a plan to Nepal for the summer, but I think that will take more than a year to save up for.
deleted_user
deleted_user
whatever i feel like doing at the time. it just depends on how the year unfolds.
playerapr
playerapr
relax, care free, having some fun and a vacation will come in handy, maybe buying a house.
lovingmyselfirst
lovingmyselfirst
Healed...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would like to continue having a lot of free time, still as I have had the last couple years.

I'd like to grow my business a little more, and have a little more income.

I'd like to invest a little of that money on another project, I'm working on, and complete that project!

I'd like to say that I have gone on another nice island vacation for another 10-14 days like last year, to Aruba!

I'd like to be able to say, that now I am totally convinced that H & I are having more intimacy, and looking like we will grow old together!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Best thing that divorce will be over. Then looking forward to the next phase where I heal myself.

Additionally a 2 week solitary adventure vacation in the wild would be nice where I can reflect back on my life and plan for the future.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I just want to be happy, drama free, no thoughts going in my head!
deleted_user
deleted_user
A year from now I'd like to have picked up these broken pieces of my life and my heart and put things back together stronger than before. I would like to be able to say I am divorced and I truely forgive him. I'd like the security and comfort back of knowing I can take care of myself and my kids and we are thriving. And I want to love myself and be genuinely happy with my new life (whatever that may be).
vanillabeane
vanillabeane
I'd like the divorce to be final and be close to fully healed.
I'd like to be in school.
I'd like to have a different job, making more money.
I'd like my children to be healthy and happy.
I'd like to be 20 lbs thinner, and participating in races/triathlons.

:)
TML67
TML67
At Peace with myself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
...alive!
MTZ3
MTZ3
Hopefully a new house (vs my townhome rental). I just bidded on a house yesterday, keeping my fingers crossed, but there are multiple offers, so I am realistic.

I hope that I will finally be settled in a new, more permanent job.

Relationships, who the heck knows. I've been dating alot, had a couple (what seemed at the time) serious relationships, but I dunno. I am starting to get tired/ bored of this crap. Dating. I doubt I will walk away from that. I do want to get married again one day, hopefully sooner than later. But I will not settle for someone who criticizes or treats me like carp. Cheats!!! They would have to treat me like a queen (like my ex, pursue me hard). This I know....