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Fantasy never fullfilled

Rman
Rman
I have always just wanted to take a nap with a woman, during a thunderstorm, in the middle of the day. We could just hold each other under the covers and sleep. Just a lazy day in bed with the woman I love. The closeness, the togetherness, the bond.
Well this has never happened. My fantasy was never fulfilled. Ten years of marriage and my fantasy was never fulfilled. This is possibly the most sissy-ass thing I have ever said in my life. I lose about 50 man points for this one...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think I hear your friends in the Abstinence & Celibacy Group calling...

Go play hypnoboy. Go now, shoo.
deleted_user
deleted_user
okay boys stop throwing sand at each other you know thats no nice
Fuzzybunny
Fuzzybunny
1990 - Frankfurt, Germany in a character filled old apartment in the Jazz district in December right before we all ship out to the Gulf for the unknown. Rainy crappy and cold Sunday where everything looks like an impressionist painting. Noon and ever so slightly hung over from the night before. Just together in bed with nothing between us- holding each other in and out of sleep without a word. Ahhhhhh.
lycesq
lycesq
hyno - you are obviously doing biofeedback and the gaydar you hear? It's yours!

Lynne
patti22
patti22
You may have lost Man points, but you'll get yourself laid that way....so who cares?
deleted_user
deleted_user
(((((((((((((Rman))))))))))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
The nicest fantasies and wishes are usually the simple ones... :o) Don't worry about points...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know what you mean I always wanted my x husband to take a day off from work and spend the day with me. You gain 100 points from me. I do not think so you will find it one day. Just like the rest of us.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You will find it same day just like the rest of us. I always wanted my
x husband to take a day off from work and just spend a day in bed with out the children around.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've napped with my XH during a thunderstorm. Man I can't believe you've never done that.

TD, you got your dating on pretty fast post break up!
deleted_user
deleted_user
RMAN go down to the rated x shop and get a blowup doll before the storm comes wed night.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry about did not want to add did not wanted to add we will all find it. I tape to fast and my fingers and brain to do not keep up with each other.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well I did have that break up thing last year... I guess this is the Masters degree, after you get your Bachelors....