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Fantasy never fullfilled

Rman
Rman
I have always just wanted to take a nap with a woman, during a thunderstorm, in the middle of the day. We could just hold each other under the covers and sleep. Just a lazy day in bed with the woman I love. The closeness, the togetherness, the bond.
Well this has never happened. My fantasy was never fulfilled. Ten years of marriage and my fantasy was never fulfilled. This is possibly the most sissy-ass thing I have ever said in my life. I lose about 50 man points for this one...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Only men can bestow man points.

Rman, you won't be docked
deleted_user
deleted_user
We do have a lot of thunderstorms down here!
more chances.
deleted_user
deleted_user
*totally steals this idea*
deleted_user
deleted_user
*dreamy sigh*

I have good memories of naps in mid day...

I don't remember thunderstorms but the naps were good all by themselves!

D.... this was a perfect fantasy... never let it go!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok, then I am creating a new point system.....I bestow RMan with 1000 SweetYum Points. These are points that women can give men and they can return. Rewarded 11/09/09. LOL.
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deleted_user
Not at all a sissy-ass thing to say. 50 man points gained.
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....and then you hear footsteps downstairs, you grab a hairbrush and right when you're at the doorway, the lights go off from the thunderstorm. She gives a little yelp, you tell her - Stay here. You go downstairs, open the basement door and then............

*note to self*

Stop watching scaring movies.

*2nd note to self*

Give Rbabbyyyy a big cleavage hug for being so sweet and all romantic and shit.
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deleted_user
Holy cow, I actually swooned after reading this. Sounds perfect. I agree with Rj. never let it go.
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deleted_user
It sucks that you never got such a simple thing after that long in a relationship. I'm sure you'll get it one day :)
Melin2
Melin2
*sigh*

BF just texted me "I'm going to take a nap, wish you were here to snuggle with me..."

I texted him back "I'm off Wednesday, mark a nap on your calendar"
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is why we need more man teachers in school. Women want men to be more womanly. This borderlines on gay..
And I am bi.
Before my wife left left all I fantasized about was meeting some super models or pageant contestants.
Man up taco boy.
Or some other stronger man is going to steal your tacos.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dude.

You can't be fucking serious?

Never happened?

Never?

Did you like knock up your wife and get married?

What about all the drummer tail you got?

Never?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe he dated vampires.
They lock themselves up in coffins during the day.
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Oh yah...

And you know the bulk of the conversations I have these days with the person am I seeing... revolve around EXACTLY THAT.

You know what she told me?

That I had been starved.

And you know what?

I fucking believe it.
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And yeah I am for real.
This site is getting to sissy. You have to admit that. There arent any real manly men here. I am barely here and tired of the touchy feely stuff. My gay dar is going alert alert.