Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I went through a devastating breakup last year. I was to get married; and exactly one month before the wedding was to take place. My ex-fiancee states he is not ready. He said, "it's me, not you." Everything was paid for and invitations were sent out. The wedding was cancelled. It'll be a year June 8. Its been a difficult time moving on with my life.
I feel hopeless when I think about a relationship with anyone. When I see couples holding hands, walking in the mall, or even looking over at a couple in the car tears begin to fall. Mentally these emotions are affecting my day to day life. It still hurts....
I feel hopeless when I think about a relationship with anyone. When I see couples holding hands, walking in the mall, or even looking over at a couple in the car tears begin to fall. Mentally these emotions are affecting my day to day life. It still hurts....
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I'm feeling down,, and got alot on my mind right now. I got grief going on, on top my depression and anxiety and now I got to worry about somewhere to live since I can't afford living here since my mom passed. So many bad things have happened since my mom passed. One thing after another it seems. Yesterday our fence fell from a storm that hit, had to call someone to prop it up. Thank...
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My day...today...misplaced my debit card...didn't realize it until I got to the register after shopping to a full cart. Used a different debit card and pulled apart everything looking for missing debit card before I left parking lot. Got home, dropped keys. So now I have a missing debit card, missing keys. A full cartload to unload and put away. I got everything put away.Dumped purse for a...
It takes time be patient. You had
A big loss.
I am divorced after 30 years and
I am still grieving and it been one
year this month.
I am still depressed and finding it
hard To start a new social life for
myself And put myself out there.
I am not Interested in dating any
time soon.
I hope to one day wake up feeling
Normal again. That is my dream
Anyway.
Hugs
((((( larkin))))
I am at the start of mine and after 13 years we are virtual strangers. I cant imagine dating right now at all and not sure if ever. However mine was so awful i feel like this is definantly for the best. I still have alot of healing. I really hope to go to therapy too to help.
As far as healing does anything help? I know right now i journal alot. I spend time with friends and just try to work on me. Take care.
I've been married for 29 years this October, got married at 25 to a guy I met at 20. Never had a significant relationship prior to that.
Parents set a bad example, to say the least.
Recently came across a letter I had written to myself dated 4-11-08. In it, I vented about the emotional mistreatment from my husband. Every single word, every one, still rings true today. It's taken me 8 years from the date of that letter, and 29 years of marriage, to finally do something to make things right for me.
I don't mean to minimize your pain *at all*, but you probably dodged a bullet by him calling things off. Maybe that thought will help you along as you heal.
I see those couples all the time, and wonder two things. Are they real? And if so, will I ever have that?