Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just asked to add a friend by someone who is a 26 year old guy. Went to his profile. He has told no story just said he was lonely and just sent hugs to every woman with a photo using the same line, "How are you today dear" or something like that! I denied him and sent a message asking his story and what kind of divorce or break up he was going through. I told him it appeared he was just here trolling for women and I for one did not appreciate it. We are all here because we have been hurt (probably by dudes {or chicks} just like him). I did say if I miss read him I was sorry but come on!!! This is the second time I have encontered such a thing. I kind of like being able to see his activity made it real clear he was not interested in what any of us had to say just looking for easy pray! Wanna kick his a## at this point. Some men will do anything! What can we do about people like this? Anyone else have same problem?
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I'm not sure if DS still has the "newbie clause" in affect where you can only send so many messages right after you open a new account, and whether that actually deters anyone.
Unfortunately, I don't see a pro-active solution to the spamming problem. Unless DS decided to block every IP originating from Nigeria (which is where most of these people seem to be spamming from), there's not much we as users can do except to block and report as these things happen.
Happy, I don't think Joane or I ever had a problem with you or any other members in that group. Actually I was concerned for all the women there because I wonder about the integrity and real motives of a man who has been divorced for 2 years, has mostly women on his friends list and who starts a sex group here at a divorce support group. He starts those graphic threads about anal sex, oral sex and sits back and watches the show.
His motives are highly suspect to me and quite frankly creepy.
You have to admit it got really graphic with people talking about licking ball sacks and swallowing cum. Ew!
But like you said everyone has their rights and if thats what you ladies want to partake in then knock yourselves out... Just don't be shocked down the road if something unsavory evolves and someone gets hurt...
Oh and anyone can look at the members list and see who belongs. You don't have to be a member.
BALL SAKS?
IS IT LUNCH ALREADY?
FRANKEE! ITS TIME!