Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I just asked to add a friend by someone who is a 26 year old guy. Went to his profile. He has told no story just said he was lonely and just sent hugs to every woman with a photo using the same line, "How are you today dear" or something like that! I denied him and sent a message asking his story and what kind of divorce or break up he was going through. I told him it appeared he was just here trolling for women and I for one did not appreciate it. We are all here because we have been hurt (probably by dudes {or chicks} just like him). I did say if I miss read him I was sorry but come on!!! This is the second time I have encontered such a thing. I kind of like being able to see his activity made it real clear he was not interested in what any of us had to say just looking for easy pray! Wanna kick his a## at this point. Some men will do anything! What can we do about people like this? Anyone else have same problem?
I took it less as a commentary on my masculinity and more of an indication of the level of stupidity of the people behind the spamming.
You, too, can find love and happiness by copying and pasting boilerplate into a message to some random stranger...
My favorite part of the message was the guy was suposedly in his 50s, was a successful banker in New York, but more than half of what he said was in textspeak...and that wasn't counting the misspellings.
Good times.
...although the worst part is I guess I won't be needing that hope chest anymore...
WLD U LKE 2 CHT???
U R DREEMY!
LETS DO LUNCH IN SAN FRANCISCO AND GET MARRIED DRING LUNCH!
BFF/KIP!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIHvKdGYhCg&feature=related
"I LOve you too."
Happy, look, if some horny kid with a hard on so big that its smacking him in the jaw comes in here and looks that youre a part of a group that read "DS Sexually deprived", they might take it as a good lead. Banker invited me and I had to decline because of my goals. But like I said, if some horny kid comes on and sees that, it might make him try. Cant blame him for trying if he thinks you want attention right. As for Joane, she made a good point. No reason to go down her throat about it. Im just saying.
When I go out with my girlfriend, I am constantly hit on by other woman and I"m sick of it. I need advice on how to stop this......
Yeah, I'm just kidding.
There was a guy on here a while back that actually used the above line. I just couldn't resist bringing it up again. Sorry, I thought you might get a kick out of it.
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