Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Guys, I am writing this post because I have noticed the large amounts of drama that occur here. Some of it is very natural because all of us are going through hard times. We are all suffering in our own ways. It doesn't matter who is suffering the worst or who is having the worst day. What matters most is that we are all suffering together and we need to come together as a group to uplift those who are having a bad day and be an anchor for those that feel like they are lost at sea.
I have been slightly detached from this place a little bit more because of the personel drama that I am trying to iron out with my job. It is putting my very life in jeapordy because my blood pressure is out of control. I am taking measures to combat this problem and I am trying to find another job, quick. I have already posted about my current issues and if you have any questions feel free to ask them.
The point of this post is that I am tired of the way that people are treating each other. I do not want to argue with people anymore because I am stressed enough in real life. I don't want to see people throwing personel attacks back and forth. There are always more than one approach to solve a problem and there isn't just one right answer. Constructive criticism is a good thing, but negative criticism is a poison that sickens the whole group. I will freely admit that I have been part of some of this and I have voiced fustrations before too. The end point is that we all need to monitor ourselves and bite our lip sometimes.
It all boils down to the old addage "If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all."
I feel that I have recovered from my pending divorce. At this point I am coming on here for my friends that I have found on here, to help other people move along though this horrible process, and support for the other things in my life.
Lets all treat eachother like we would want to be treated. I realize that some of us have bad days but we need to try to realize that we are having a bad day and watch what we say when we are in that situation.
I have been slightly detached from this place a little bit more because of the personel drama that I am trying to iron out with my job. It is putting my very life in jeapordy because my blood pressure is out of control. I am taking measures to combat this problem and I am trying to find another job, quick. I have already posted about my current issues and if you have any questions feel free to ask them.
The point of this post is that I am tired of the way that people are treating each other. I do not want to argue with people anymore because I am stressed enough in real life. I don't want to see people throwing personel attacks back and forth. There are always more than one approach to solve a problem and there isn't just one right answer. Constructive criticism is a good thing, but negative criticism is a poison that sickens the whole group. I will freely admit that I have been part of some of this and I have voiced fustrations before too. The end point is that we all need to monitor ourselves and bite our lip sometimes.
It all boils down to the old addage "If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all."
I feel that I have recovered from my pending divorce. At this point I am coming on here for my friends that I have found on here, to help other people move along though this horrible process, and support for the other things in my life.
Lets all treat eachother like we would want to be treated. I realize that some of us have bad days but we need to try to realize that we are having a bad day and watch what we say when we are in that situation.
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
Now I understand that we all get upset and this is a social enviornment, so there is going to be disagreement. This is okay if someone has beef with someone else they can always message one another and hopefully resolve it for the sake of the group.
Here is my post for those good threads that have left... PLEASE COME BACK!! YOU People that truely need help this is a good place to get just that ;) SB