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Don’t know how I’m supposed to feel ok ever again

cazroberts1984
cazroberts1984

My husband ended our 9yr marriage 3 days ago and is moving out

GirlinCalif
GirlinCalif
I'm sorry to hear that!

Do you know what happened?

Maybe it would help to talk about it here.
weinkind
weinkind
So sorry to hear!!! My life is falling apart also, hang on
It has to get better and you will find love again
you look young and beautiful so go out and enjoy life.
just think "his loss" and go out and be amazing!!!
Coldfusion
Coldfusion
That is rough. I can totally empathize with you. It hurts most when you don't want it. I will pray for you now...

Having done that, I will say I felt that way in 1985 and I'm feeling it again.

I have faith that God will lead me into something good, even though I can't imagine what that will be. Keep your chin up.
micballmer
micballmer
I am very sorry to hear about your situation and believe everything in life happens for a reason. You are still very beautiful and young which is the most important KEY in life. Right now you need to use your head and as you open a new chapter in your life, Stay blessed
cbgrace1980
cbgrace1980
I am so sorry you are going through this. I have been through this and it comes as such a shock. My heart is with you. Thank you for sharing your struggle with us. We are here for you anytime you need to vent. Hugs to you.
cazroberts1984
cazroberts1984
I just can’t see this getting any easier, I can’t imagine myself being able to be happy with anyone else ever again
cazroberts1984
cazroberts1984
Thanks so much for all your reply’s
Coldfusion
Coldfusion
It does get it easier. I know it sounds like so much crap, but the passage of time and the resulting ability to see things in a different light helps.

My first divorce was sharp and unexpected, and almost cost me my life.

This one won't, because it's like finally coming to the end of a depressing novel which I didn't really want to read in the first place.

But have faith, do things that make you happy, and really, really, consider the outcomes of making decisions that you normally wouldn't make.
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