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I am going to try to explain this the best way I can.
I was just wondering if it is the same for guys to think of things the same way a women might. If you see or hear something, does it sometimes bring a memory of your wife/girlfriend. Or maybe you will think of, she always liked that. I was thinking this because I do sometimes find myself falling backward into the past. Something will happen a little thing like how maybe how my stbx liked to eat a certain food. That's what I mean a simple little thing. I guess what I am wondering is if maybe he sometimes will remember things about me or if it is just me
I was just wondering if it is the same for guys to think of things the same way a women might. If you see or hear something, does it sometimes bring a memory of your wife/girlfriend. Or maybe you will think of, she always liked that. I was thinking this because I do sometimes find myself falling backward into the past. Something will happen a little thing like how maybe how my stbx liked to eat a certain food. That's what I mean a simple little thing. I guess what I am wondering is if maybe he sometimes will remember things about me or if it is just me
men do not all behave the same way.... neither do women...
do some men think the same way you do? yes, some do... but some do not...
likewize, women cannot be classified into a single train of thought or design...
To tell you a joke that Robin Whilliams said.
"You know god has a sence of hummor as he gave man 2 heads and only enough blood to run one at a time".
My X and I have the same birthday, now try to beat that one.
Well, i guess being that men are human beings as women are human beings and in many ways the wiring is similiar...i go with yep, I betcha they hurt or remember just like us.
gotta say, i dont really understand your question...
I do know for myself that i get triggers all the time!! My ex proposed to me on my birthday! It gets better though. I noticed this year on my b-day i didn't think about it like i did the year before.