I am in desperate need of sound advise. After being divorced 20 yrs, I just married the man that I thought was the right one two short weeks ago today. I know that it was probably wrong, but due to the fact that I was waking at 2am and finding my new husband texting on his cell, I decided to check it when he was out of the room. He always hides his cell and turns it off, but just so happens he left it in the room when he thought I was asleep. I found that only four days after we married, he was receiving pic texts of a 17 yr old girl as well as texting the woman that he was seeing before me. I confronted him and he became very angry. The next day he did change his cell number which I thought was a step in the right direction. But now he starts arguments constantly and is very moody and impossible to get along with. He blames me completely for everything. Says it was nothing and I shouldn't have got upset about it. He is very insecure, I'm guessing because he does bad things he thinks everyone else does too. He cheated on his first two wives. The night before I looked on his cell I had my Christmas dinner at work and had to stay over. He kept my 6 yr old daughter. I texted him twice, once to say we were eating and ask him if my daughter was being good to which he responded "I reckon" and then once to tell him that I would be home shortly to which he responded "I hope so, I wasn't counting on babysitting". I found his responses rude and offensive. This was my fault as well, said he meant nothing by the comments. I am so sad and confused and need advise.