Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Regaloctopus 07/28/2016

Am I the only one who feels like it takes 20 times the effort to do anything? I just had to pep talk myself for an hour just to get out of bed and take a shower...

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

Yeah, he actually texted me last night that he has no care or love for me and actually doesn't feel anything at all and that he's already checked out.

mirandac 07/31/2016

I am sorry for your pain and
Hurt .Hugs

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

Thank you =). I just can't wait until I'm in my own place in a month and he's bought out my share of the house. Hearing him laughing and having fun playing video games all night saddens and infuriates me.

mirandac 07/31/2016

That is strange to me Is he addicted to them? My ex
Was not a happy camper With me around. HeMade
himself scarce. Mostly he went in the opposite direction.
He did not want To face or see me. HUGS

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

He's a video game streamer who has dreams of being partnered on twitch and payed to do so, therefore he has to stream his games all the time to gain more followers. He plays 8-12 hours each night. Which I supported and bought him all the stuff he needed for it which was thousands of dollars. But no matter how much I was there for him, he doesn't care about me

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

Maybe it's my own fault, I always put him first. Anything he ever said he wanted I made sure he got, I took care of all the finances and bills, all the house work. I even got him up each morning for work. I surprised him with gifts and dates and trips. He never did any of that for me, I invested everything in him and put him on a pedestal so he felt he was better than me. I guess we train people how to treat us

mirandac 07/31/2016

Well thats not much of a life for you, you
Will at least have a little peace after you
Move. Let yourself grieve, join a divorce
Group and /or a therapist to help you to
Cope and move thru the muck. You have
A double whammy moving and divorce.
HUGS

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

That's my plan. On top of all that, we also work for the same company. Although our coworkers have always liked me more, ha

mirandac 07/31/2016

Oh boy i have gone no contact and like it That
way. I could then start to detach, i still struggle
And its been 14 months. The triggers still come
And all the feelings and emotions can swamp
You. HUGS

Regaloctopus 07/31/2016

Yeah, I just want to be paid the money so I know I'll be financially secure and then no contact

annesanchez 08/04/2016

Find people who will take care of you. Friends, family, pets also help. Because at this phase, you need them until you can take care of yourself again. Sending you all the love, hugs and care.

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