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Today I learned something new: a nice, sweet profile with open heart is most of the time looked over and labeled as cliche.
It did not occur to me that, aside from the difficulty of finding someone, there is also the new type of "resume": not only you are "selling" yourself as different but also you need to put in there somewhat of a perspective of what you aim in 5 to 10 years towards of life.
Out of curiosity, what does your dating profile say, and if you don't have one, what would you like to say that could call attention from someone who wants what you want (a friend, company, partner for ice cream)?
It did not occur to me that, aside from the difficulty of finding someone, there is also the new type of "resume": not only you are "selling" yourself as different but also you need to put in there somewhat of a perspective of what you aim in 5 to 10 years towards of life.
Out of curiosity, what does your dating profile say, and if you don't have one, what would you like to say that could call attention from someone who wants what you want (a friend, company, partner for ice cream)?
very helpful
thankyou
I appreciate the sharing, the guidance, the heartfelt suggestions.
At the same time I think: what you would like to read about someone that would capture your eye and make you want to meet that person even if for coffee only on a Sunday afternoon?
what makes one more interesting that the next?
1. rock
2. prince
3. king
4. queen
5. princess
6. unemployed
7. fibromyalgia
8. depression
9. therapist
10. harley
11. suck
12. tattoo
13. moonlight
13. beach
14. spoon
15. nascar
16. spiritual
17. new age
18. chakra
19. foot fetish
20. inches
21. cup size
22. beer
23. jack daniels
24. disco
25. any non descriptive adjecttive: nice, compassionate, caring, sweet, kind, affectionate, attractive
26. and the biggie:
"a few extra pounds"
if I come across something unusually but well written that made me smile and a bit curious I'd respond
especially if he had a sense of humour about himself
or life in general
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I really like prince and queen they are like the king of rock. I am looking for an unemployed princess with fibromyalgia who sees her therapist regularly for her depression. I am a compassionate, caring sweet, kind affectionate man with a few extra pounds and inches I hope to get sucked out. I am looking for a woman with at least one tattoo, a large cup size, foot fetish, into nascar, and loves disco. I believe that in this new spiritual age, chakra is so important. So what do you say, hop on my Harley with me? Well head to the beach, have a beer and a Jack Daniels chaser, and spoon in the moonlight.
These were such funny points, showing how we can enjoy and get a kick of something that brought us all here: our ability to still have friends, still reach out, still hope that one day we will meet someone that will match the piece of the puzzle that completes the scene.
Ironically, here is my take: if Doug's profile would be up on a Dating site, Faithful777 would just move to the next, but I am sure that it would call the attention of millions and the site inbox would be full in a very short time - hahahahahaha!
But very funny.
Everything else is fluff we either want others to believe or ourselves