Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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empty 10/01/2016

I went to sleep crying, I woke up crying I cry throughout the day. I just miss her so much! If she has moved on I don't inderstand it she told me I would run away and that's ok because we are meant to be together she will follow me and wait because she loves me.

She didn't wait or follow now I'm so empty!

'focus on yourself' is what people say but I don't know how to do that.

I Just want the pain to stop and the tears to go away. I want her shaped hole in my heart gone

mirandac 10/01/2016

Its okay to grieve, its a natuaral process.
I cried for 4 months after my ex left and
Things were bad. It still hurt and i am not
Totally recovered yet. Time takes time be
Gentle and kind to yourself. HUGS

imiru 10/01/2016

It's gonna take time to learn how to love yourself and let go of someone who coudlnt love you the way you needed. It will all be ok,just have some patience, it will be ok.

anabel 10/01/2016

I know exactly how you feel. The pain is unbearable.. We will all get through this !! One day at a time !

empty 10/01/2016

I hope so! I don't want to cry anymore. I'm so angry at myself for putting myself in this situation.
I've never seen rock bottom quite like this! How do we begin when we feel so alone

mirandac 10/01/2016

Keep talking to us and your therapist,
Join support groups. Grieving is in 7
Stages look it up. HUGS

Minidogs2 10/01/2016

Great advice to find a good therapist and a good support group and possibly medication if you think you may need it. Grieving is a very, very hard complicated process. Build a strong support system with every supportive person you can to go forward one step and one day at a time. Be careful not to keep to yourself and medicate yourself or build destructive habits.
Do you not jumping into dating to try to ease the pain. It will not work.

empty 10/01/2016

Thank you everyone.
I am trying to surround myself with friends and family but working with people I particularly like and then living in a room on my own takes it's toll.
Dating sounds like hell to be honest. I never want to feel like this again I've given up on that. I will find a focus one day maybe until then it's just exist I guess

tynee5511 10/01/2016

Its so many broken hearts on here mine being one included heartbreak is so bad but I looked at it as trying to find a way to look at it positively and then it's so hard but we either have to overcome it or let it overcome us. Big Hugs

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