Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
been 8 months, confirmed this week that she did indeed have an affair...
I still struggle every day, it's just so hard to except.. I feel so bad for the kids, they didn't ask for this....
my support group has been canceled for the last three weeks due to snow, and I'm sure it will be canceled Monday with another 20" coming Saturday night.
I'm still working, joined a gym go three nights a week for a workout,
running out of money fast with the bills and child support. thinking I may file for bankruptcy soon, she's in the house, so I just need to get rid on my credit card debt, 2 cards are over 750.00 a month, killing me.....
I'm just feeling like a piece of worthless crap... how can someone who has everything do this to someone they were with for 23 years..
my sister tells me, she got bored, tired of the home life, kids work etc, and someone sweet talked her and she fell for it... selfish.....
she never really got out, her choose, had to be that facebook.....
oh the days are killing me slowly...
next court date is in April... hope I make it that long...
I still struggle every day, it's just so hard to except.. I feel so bad for the kids, they didn't ask for this....
my support group has been canceled for the last three weeks due to snow, and I'm sure it will be canceled Monday with another 20" coming Saturday night.
I'm still working, joined a gym go three nights a week for a workout,
running out of money fast with the bills and child support. thinking I may file for bankruptcy soon, she's in the house, so I just need to get rid on my credit card debt, 2 cards are over 750.00 a month, killing me.....
I'm just feeling like a piece of worthless crap... how can someone who has everything do this to someone they were with for 23 years..
my sister tells me, she got bored, tired of the home life, kids work etc, and someone sweet talked her and she fell for it... selfish.....
she never really got out, her choose, had to be that facebook.....
oh the days are killing me slowly...
next court date is in April... hope I make it that long...
i'm not the type to kick someone when there down, but I want my kids to have the life they deserve to have not with some party chick...
I can't sleep again,,,, this really sucks.
You and your kids first
What an awful thing to do to someone....how do they do it and live with themselves?? I thought we were happy...I thought things were okay, until he pulled the rug out from under me with the old, "I love you, but I'm not IN love with you" line. How could I have been so blind? This cheating had been taking place for years and I never once doubted his love. I trusted SO much....that's what hurts the most....the trust was broken. He was a pretty shitty husband, I don't miss the husband...but I miss who I thought was my best friend. How can they hurt someone that much?? I could never do it.
So sorry that you're hurting too....It does get better. It's like grief, you go through stages....I promise it'll get better. Not go away, but the big gaping hole in your chest will soon heal.