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Blown off by my friends

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Bloody hell. I was having a get together at my house for a few of my friends that I work with. There is 5 of them that said that they would be here. I cooked all kinds of food for them and only one of them showed up. One got detained with kids, three of them just never showed up and never called.

What the Heck? It isn't like I was just throwing something together for them and this was planned. Friggin bastards, that is the last time I do anything like that for them.

Even my friends blow me off these days. Hell, only reason none of you guys have left the room running is because you are stuck on the internet with me! You can only count on family I guess.

This irks me to no end. I have no social circle and even my "Friends" can't even be around.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Big hugs.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why don't you invite some of us up - scared we might just show up and have so much fun someone will call the COPS???
deleted_user
deleted_user
Aw, Heave. That sucks. I'm sorry. (((HUGS)))
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh heave....maybe they thought you were having Mccain/Palin at your house and decided not to come.... Kidding, kidding, kidding...please no one send me hate mail......I couldn't help passing this up and Heave is a good sport.....

Sorry about your friends blowing you off that is quite upsetting.....

:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
((((((((((((Heave))))))))))))) Some of the very best friends I thought I had, disappeared when the stbx and I seperated, used to ask them over, they never showed. So sorry you have had this happen to you...we will always be here for ya! ((((HUGS))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
That sucks! But we're here.
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
Wow, that's really rude of your friends. So sorry, Heave.

Sending you a big hug!
deleted_user
deleted_user
And I am hungry
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh we are better then them anyways... They stink big balls.... You're much better online...

Kay, I'm hungry too!
kate52
kate52
AAhhhh that's too bad Heave..and you seem like such a sweet guy. I would have showed up.. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry, that is terrible (( hugs))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hugs Heave!

I'm sorry to hear about your friends. Do you have any leftovers for us? :)
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
LOL...They will pay for this...Now I have to eat all the beans that I made for the dinner. They will pay dearly tomorrow at work. *Insert Evil Laugh*. I think that I will throw a few boiled eggs and beers in with it for good measure. If you can't beat them...stink them
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm really sorry! I'm sure it isn't personal--people just don't think what they do will affect anything (or don't think, period). So many people just seem to be spinning around in their own orbit and not notice their effects on others. Wish I could be there! Hey, freeze some of it--you'll be glad to have it later. Think of it as Heave Today throwing a party for Heave in Two Weeks.
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Oh..I am loading up the cannon at this point. Beans, beans, and more beans.