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I am a bit edgy tonight and I think I put my fingers on why.
Tonight after dinner I grab a beer out of the fridge. I just want a beer or two to sip and relax. My Dad starts making comments on it and says that I am getting fat from stuff like that and I just ate dinner.
I tell you what....Just mind your own damn business and get the HELL out of mine. Seriously, I have been over 21 for 10 years and I know all about alcohol.
Another thing, I don't need people to tell me that I am going to get fat from something. Holy SHIT!!!! No matter how much I work out my weight won't get below a certain point and it seems that my body has found this happy point where it wants to just sit. I have been active all FREAKING day and I don't sit around and drink beer while sitting on the couch, all day, and do nothing but eat potato chips. I have been moving since 7 this morning. DAMN IT!
Living with your parents sucks. Last night I got into a huge tiff with my Dad because he started the same shit with me last night. He said that I was fat. I finally looked at him and said "I am 5'11" and 235 pounds, you are 5'5" and 200 pounds. I weight 35 pounds more than you but I am 6 inches taller and a lot more muscular, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?"
Yeah, I haven't been out working out all the time like I was a few months ago. It is summer and I am constantly doing something outside: Sailing, fishing, walking, working on things, and other things. Just because I don't have a set workout time (it is hard to do this because of my schedule) doesn't mean that I have turned into a couch potato. I will probably make more of a effort to get back into the pool and swim when the weather turns but I would rather be working out outside and enjoying the weather than going to a pool and swimming laps right now.
I hate living with my parents. I could move out but then I couldn't rebuild my savings. My savings went to nill when I was going through the divorce thing. It does beat living alone too. Now I remember why I go to my boat and stay there on my days off, no one there bothers me!!!!!!
Tonight after dinner I grab a beer out of the fridge. I just want a beer or two to sip and relax. My Dad starts making comments on it and says that I am getting fat from stuff like that and I just ate dinner.
I tell you what....Just mind your own damn business and get the HELL out of mine. Seriously, I have been over 21 for 10 years and I know all about alcohol.
Another thing, I don't need people to tell me that I am going to get fat from something. Holy SHIT!!!! No matter how much I work out my weight won't get below a certain point and it seems that my body has found this happy point where it wants to just sit. I have been active all FREAKING day and I don't sit around and drink beer while sitting on the couch, all day, and do nothing but eat potato chips. I have been moving since 7 this morning. DAMN IT!
Living with your parents sucks. Last night I got into a huge tiff with my Dad because he started the same shit with me last night. He said that I was fat. I finally looked at him and said "I am 5'11" and 235 pounds, you are 5'5" and 200 pounds. I weight 35 pounds more than you but I am 6 inches taller and a lot more muscular, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?"
Yeah, I haven't been out working out all the time like I was a few months ago. It is summer and I am constantly doing something outside: Sailing, fishing, walking, working on things, and other things. Just because I don't have a set workout time (it is hard to do this because of my schedule) doesn't mean that I have turned into a couch potato. I will probably make more of a effort to get back into the pool and swim when the weather turns but I would rather be working out outside and enjoying the weather than going to a pool and swimming laps right now.
I hate living with my parents. I could move out but then I couldn't rebuild my savings. My savings went to nill when I was going through the divorce thing. It does beat living alone too. Now I remember why I go to my boat and stay there on my days off, no one there bothers me!!!!!!
yeah, bullet proof vest is bulky and heavy, though he got new thing that is fitted and pretty light compared to his old one.
Come on.....keeping a good irish lad from his beer?
Yes...I could live paycheck to paycheck and get a place but I could barely afford it and it would be foolish to do that until I start making more money. For now, I will just live like a refugee.