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I am a bit edgy tonight and I think I put my fingers on why.
Tonight after dinner I grab a beer out of the fridge. I just want a beer or two to sip and relax. My Dad starts making comments on it and says that I am getting fat from stuff like that and I just ate dinner.
I tell you what....Just mind your own damn business and get the HELL out of mine. Seriously, I have been over 21 for 10 years and I know all about alcohol.
Another thing, I don't need people to tell me that I am going to get fat from something. Holy SHIT!!!! No matter how much I work out my weight won't get below a certain point and it seems that my body has found this happy point where it wants to just sit. I have been active all FREAKING day and I don't sit around and drink beer while sitting on the couch, all day, and do nothing but eat potato chips. I have been moving since 7 this morning. DAMN IT!
Living with your parents sucks. Last night I got into a huge tiff with my Dad because he started the same shit with me last night. He said that I was fat. I finally looked at him and said "I am 5'11" and 235 pounds, you are 5'5" and 200 pounds. I weight 35 pounds more than you but I am 6 inches taller and a lot more muscular, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?"
Yeah, I haven't been out working out all the time like I was a few months ago. It is summer and I am constantly doing something outside: Sailing, fishing, walking, working on things, and other things. Just because I don't have a set workout time (it is hard to do this because of my schedule) doesn't mean that I have turned into a couch potato. I will probably make more of a effort to get back into the pool and swim when the weather turns but I would rather be working out outside and enjoying the weather than going to a pool and swimming laps right now.
I hate living with my parents. I could move out but then I couldn't rebuild my savings. My savings went to nill when I was going through the divorce thing. It does beat living alone too. Now I remember why I go to my boat and stay there on my days off, no one there bothers me!!!!!!
Tonight after dinner I grab a beer out of the fridge. I just want a beer or two to sip and relax. My Dad starts making comments on it and says that I am getting fat from stuff like that and I just ate dinner.
I tell you what....Just mind your own damn business and get the HELL out of mine. Seriously, I have been over 21 for 10 years and I know all about alcohol.
Another thing, I don't need people to tell me that I am going to get fat from something. Holy SHIT!!!! No matter how much I work out my weight won't get below a certain point and it seems that my body has found this happy point where it wants to just sit. I have been active all FREAKING day and I don't sit around and drink beer while sitting on the couch, all day, and do nothing but eat potato chips. I have been moving since 7 this morning. DAMN IT!
Living with your parents sucks. Last night I got into a huge tiff with my Dad because he started the same shit with me last night. He said that I was fat. I finally looked at him and said "I am 5'11" and 235 pounds, you are 5'5" and 200 pounds. I weight 35 pounds more than you but I am 6 inches taller and a lot more muscular, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?"
Yeah, I haven't been out working out all the time like I was a few months ago. It is summer and I am constantly doing something outside: Sailing, fishing, walking, working on things, and other things. Just because I don't have a set workout time (it is hard to do this because of my schedule) doesn't mean that I have turned into a couch potato. I will probably make more of a effort to get back into the pool and swim when the weather turns but I would rather be working out outside and enjoying the weather than going to a pool and swimming laps right now.
I hate living with my parents. I could move out but then I couldn't rebuild my savings. My savings went to nill when I was going through the divorce thing. It does beat living alone too. Now I remember why I go to my boat and stay there on my days off, no one there bothers me!!!!!!
Damn....I have really wierd tastes in music!
I drove a Harley as a Police Officer for a while.
It works.
I'm supposed to be 185... which is what I was when I was married.
I need a second job - with manual labor.
A girl saw a little rose
It bloomed there in bright heights
She asked her sweetheart
if he could fetch it for her
She wants it and that's fine
So it was and so it will always be
She wants it and that's the custom
Whatever she wants she gets
Deep wells must be dug
if you want clear water
Rose-red, oh Rose-red
Deep waters don't run still
The boy climbs the mountain in torment
He doesn't really care about the view
Only the little rose is on his mind
He brings it to his sweetheart
She wants it and that's fine
So it was and so it will always be
She wants it and that's the custom
Whatever she wants she gets
Deep wells must be dug
if you want clear water
Rose-red, oh Rose-red
Deep waters don't run still
At his boots, a stone breaks
Doesn't want to be on the cliff anymore
And a scream lets everyone know
Both are falling to the ground
She wants it and that's fine
So it was and so it will always be
She wants it and that's the custom
Whatever she wants she gets
Deep wells must be dug
if you want clear water
Rose-red, oh Rose-red
Deep waters don't run still
I understand where you're at--yes, moving out would deal with the immediate problems , but the bottom line is, parents shouldn't fucking treat their kids this way!
Do what's best for you, and I hope you can hang in there in the mean time.
There's a great book called "Toxic Parents" which deals with this stuff, but it might just make you more angry if you read it while you still live with your folks.
BTW, cops are hot, and I far prefer a man with some meat and muscle on his bones to a scrawny guy. ; )
You have goal and you are doing the right thing.
Hang in there.
btw5'11" and 235lb isn't FAT, tyvm
You put 10lb around your waist with belt day in and day out at work.
Your body will tell you when you are over weight, your back will hurt first.
but damn, you carry extra cuffs?
My stbx yep about belt weight all the time