Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Third time my EWW has reached out since she left almost a year ago. This time her daughter "accidentally" had a package shipped to my house and she'd like to pick it up when it comes. A month ago it was Christmas ornaments she forgot. 4 months ago it was a simple "Hi" at 12:30 in the morning. I've responded to none of them. The first time it just took my breath away, the second time disdain, this time I was able to finish ironing my shirt and go to work. I will never be a casual friend to her. I don't ever want her to exist in my mind again. She has no idea of the emotional devastation she caused me early on. I'm torn between wanting her to try to reconcile so I can effectively tell her to take a hike and asking myself, still, how could she have done this to me. It's driving me nuts...
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
The package...you can't keep it. Kids, ex-step-kids, even adult ones, shouldn't have to pay for their parent's issues. Leave it on the porch and give your ex a time to go pick it up.
I don't think the - trying to get her to reconcile just so you can dump her - is a healthy way to spend your time and energies. Moving on with your life is the best thing for you to do. Move forward with your life, not backward.