Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm sorry people, it's been 18 days, but i just found out that my ex has done all the things that i thought she had, and she lied about them.
She is now sleeping with this guy that i thought she was. She made me think i was paranoid and crazy, she ruined me. I'm here taking antidepressants and diazepam because of her.
She is out there with this guy that she once flirted with in front of me.
When i spoke to her...oh no! I was crazy
I need to call her, i need to hear it from her face to face
Sorry people, is there anything anyone can possibly say to make me feel any better about this
She is now sleeping with this guy that i thought she was. She made me think i was paranoid and crazy, she ruined me. I'm here taking antidepressants and diazepam because of her.
She is out there with this guy that she once flirted with in front of me.
When i spoke to her...oh no! I was crazy
I need to call her, i need to hear it from her face to face
Sorry people, is there anything anyone can possibly say to make me feel any better about this
You aren't going to get anything out of this. There is absolutely nothing positive that can come out of this at all.
Don't try to rationalize how YOUR relationship was DIFFERENT and that's WHY you should do this. You're NO DIFFERENT. Stop with the victim mentality and accept that this DID happen but that's not where you are now. That you can't change what DID happen but you sure as hell can address what is going on NOW. You can control this moment.
What a great truth cheryt!
I was lied to for years and actually told I was crazy. You will not gain anything from a confrontation. There is no satisfaction in being right about this except for the fact that you aren't crazy. The relationship is over. Don't continue to torture yourself because I can guarantee she isn't.
The one good thing from this? You can stop wondering if things would have been different if...because they wouldn't be. She would have still been the same. If she was right for you...you would still be together and this would not have happened. Believe me, I understand. But take a look around here...there is no one here who doesn't care. Only the people who care and open up enough to care get hurt. Stop hurting yourself...
You have pages of advice here. Grab something and go with it.
You are a good person and you deserve to be treated better so take care of you and treat yourself the way you want to be treated...get better from this and go out there and don't let this stop you from living life...
stay strong x