Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I really hate myself right now...of all days to be "having a bad day" the day of the meetup. I freaking hate myself for crying over this sham of a marriage, how this will affect the kids, and someone who obviously didn't give a shit enough about us to not let this happen. God, I love the man and I know I need to love myself more. I feel bipolar..thinking I'm doing well and them bammmm...hit rock bottom again. WTH? I really think this pain will kill me in the long run, even tho' to most I hide it so well you'd never know. It's my alone time in this house or whereever that it really hits me...really hard! I'm just sick of it all..being exhausted, having puffy eyes, but honestly, I cannot help the way I feel...I'm trying so hard so hard to move past this...but it cuts me to the core. Sorry to vent and whine people, I thought I was so much better I guess I just needed to see how I felt in black and white.
--Lisa
--Lisa
Hey llmt...you started the day saying you wanted to have a Bmore meetup. Now you're saying you don't want to go to the Philly one. I think if you are able to go, then you should do so. Tomorrow you will be happy that you overcame this crap and had some fun.
thats grief...your heart needs to grieve....its perfectly appropriate given your circumstances. I know its unpleasant and uncomfortable and hard to tolerate, but I'm a firm believer in letting the heart feel what it needs to feel (I only ever made sure my son and my exBF - and oh yeah my work colleagues- didnt see much of it).
and Rman is right llmt. Get over here or your ass is grass! I am also pretty funny when I drink and my video gaming will suck....please, show up for YOURSELF. I think it will do you some good. If you dont want to play the vid games, i will sit at the bar with you... whatever you need, girl. Some days suck and we get that.