Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What would you do if you were asleep in bed and were woken up by your ex hugging you tightly?
I'd probablly puke in his face :(
Every morning, just before I wake up, my oldest daughter comes in my bedroom and gives me a long hug. I usually have my eyes shut, as I'm just waking up. So the same happened this morning and I told her that she was "a pretty girl and I'm so proud of her." As I was hugging her and saying these words, I opened my eyes and saw her holding a bra...but it wasn't my daughter...it was my wife. I just told my bra-carrying wife that she was a pretty girl and that I was proud of her, all while she was hugging me. Talk about a mind fuck way to start the day...lol
Rman - WTF! I am so confused about her behavior just reading what you write here. Holy crap - was this for real???
Lynne
First I'll give you a real answer as if it were a real situation. I know you joke quite a bit and I'm not 100% sure that this really happened.
I would ask her what she was doing and why. Does she want you back? Do you want her back? Was this a lapse of judgement on her part? Did she really mean to hug you? Did you like the hug? Do you want more hugs from her? Try to be honest with your feelings. I don't know if it's normal for the ex to do this. I've only been split with my wife for a couple of months and she has someone else so I don't get hugs. Not that I would want her to hug me now. She's tainted, a liar and a cheater. I wish we lived in the 1600's she would be publicly humiliated and possibly thrown out of our town to fend for herself. >:)