yep

in fact I still do

of course. love is, after all, just positive commitments to others. when we obey traffic laws, we are demonstrating our love of our community, for example.

the better question, to me, would be: would you positively commit to someone who is not positively committed to you?

I would say NO. But that depends on what you mean by love...

Could I be married to someone I didn't trust? No.

But, my youngest is quite a cheater with any sort of game (dice, cards, board games) and if you take your eye off her for a second, she's got a yatzee, or has rolled doubles... or mysteriously has more cards...

Do I trust her in games? hell no, but I love her with all my heart.

I would also say that trust is a thing with levels, not boolean. It's not about whether I trust or not, but HOW MUCH I trust.

Yes, because I do love someone I don't trust.

I totally agree with JoyDrop. I do still love my stbx on some level.... but there is no trust. I had to explain this to my 21 year old daughter last night when she, again, broke into tears as to why I can't go back again. She has not clue. I didn't either until it happened to me again. It takes a lot of work for relationship to work and love is only part of the equation.

I thought I could, but in the end no! How can you trust someone that lies, cheats, has addiction problems???

I love my husband. But No Longer trust him.
And that makes me sad!
Hope she was worth all this pain he's caused.

i do. dont trust him a bit. but love love love him.

Love is what makes us blind. Trust is what helps us see.

Can you love and not trust? Absolutely, but you are doing it in the dark.

Trust: It takes a lifetime to create and only suspicion, not proof, to destroy it. But I beleive it can be rebuilt, if you still love each other.

My ex-husband I loved him, but didn't trust him a bit...and didn't like him very much either....but I loved him and still do!!!!

Yes, but it doesn't turn out well.

Trust doesn't come easy for me. So for me, I couldn't love someone I don't trust. I think, Trust, loyalty. honor, integrity and other things all play a role in a loving relationship and loving someone. Without any of those, I couldn't see me giving my heart, body or mind to that person.

I trusted my ex beyond any words. She was one of the first people I really trusted that much. But once things cames to the surface and I found out she lied, maniuplated and cheated, I had no trust in her and found that the feeling I thought was love, started to fade. The only feeling I was left with was indifference and I had no respect for her whatsoever. There were others as well that I put my trust in to before and after her that I had real feelings for. But once the trust was broken between them and I, for a whatever reason, the feelings started to dissapate and I found myself just distancing myself and the feelings I thought were there or developing, seemed to evaporate over time.

So yeh, for me, trust is big and I couldn't love or even really like someone if I didn't trust them.

heh, can you love someone you don't like?

Can u trust love. . . .?