Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Ive been with the same person since I was 14 years old. I am now 21. He's a year older than me and honestly through the years he's cheated on me and he's hurt me so bad. Even during the week that his mom died. That hurt me so bad. Iv never been with anyone else sexually. He's the only one. Can't say the same for him. So I think it's best to say that we've been on and off constantly. But never officially done. We are now at the same college and he graduates in December, while I graduate in May. He has plans to move to Florida with his best friend and start his career. We live in North Carolina btw. So I'm kind of lost because I guess I thought we'd officially start our life together but he hasn't included me in anything. He doesn't include me in anything in his life. I find out about it on his friends' social media because we don't even follow eachother. As of recently it's been weighing on my mind and heart heavy that things are not what I thought they were. He never says I'm his girlfriend. I only see him once a week and we live down the street from eachother. But he sees his friends every single day. We don't talk on the phone or anything ever. Just text all day everyday. Unless he's with his friends at that moment. He never posts me on social media. But posts ALL THE TIME!!!! He always posts pictures and he loves Snapchat but you can't even acknowledge me? I'm not saying he has to post me all the time but at least acknowledge it. What do you have to hide? I'm no Beyoncé but I'm an attractive person, not to be cocky or anything, I just don't get it. He always goes on trips and never invites me. That's all the time. Meanwhile his brother and friends always bring their girlfriends. I've known his family for some time now as well but he never brings me around. His family is super close with his brothers girlfriend and she's only been around for about a year maybe 2. I've been around for 7. What's going on? It's like he has two separate lives. I have no relationship with his best friends, their girls, or his family, other than his sister, because he never wants me around. I admit that I have low self esteem and if we end idk if anyone will want me and I know I will never love anyone like this. I just don't know what to do. How do I approach the situation without starting a big fight? I need advice...
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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It's been some time since my last post...sorry. I've been going through a challenging time with the sale of my home, purchase of a condo and my adult asperger son that lives with me. I've had days where I couldn't get out of bed, days where I stayed in my pj's and days where all I managed to do was eat, drink fluids and take care of my Sweet Mia kitty. Sweet Mia came to me from a shelter about...
- I am living in North Carolina moved here a year ago for a man I've loved my whole life. I was still being hurt by him, than I met someone who hurt me bc he said I hurt him. Girl love can be tough/rough! I'm fighting through the pain as we speak.
Now for you I know it seems he's running off to Florida to start this amazing life but trust me somebody is going to rip his heart into smithereens it always comes back to any of us the way we treat others! Sure hearing this does not lessen the pain. But you did your best!
You will love again ever heartbroken heart, I said the same thing, I will never love again but you will.
1) Stop responding to his text messages, energy stife.
2) Use visualization for him to either change or let you go.
3) Keep a gratitude Journal of 10 things you want to happen between now, December, and May!
4) Say you love yourself 100 times per day for the next 30 days.
5) Go out party, join new clubs, force him out of your mind! He can feel when you pulled away!
So what do y'all do together besides sex? And text when he isn't busy with friends and family?