Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I have had a good marriage, not perfect but we were both happy, or so I thought. 10 days before Xmas I suddenly realized he didn't love me anymore. He was distant and angry at me. I confronted him. He said he didn't love me like a man should love his wife. He left the next day to stay at his moms. Everyone and I mean everyone was in shock, especially me. 4 months later he is still there while I file the divorce paperwork and I'm still uncertain why he left. He gave me so many different reasons. He couldn't even say he wanted a divorce until I made him. He would say, I'm not coming back, or we've had our time and now it's over. I can't believe he just left me, the person I trusted the most, my best friend. How do you get over this? I'm in theropy but it still hurts so much.
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
I guess if he won't give you any satisfactory answer, maybe it is something else. Is there another woman, did he figure out he is not actually attracted to women, was he leading a double life? There could be a reason that you don't know about. I am certain it is nothing you did wrong.
Did you two get together very young? Sometimes people grow up and grow apart and they wonder "what else is out there".. Thinking the grass is greener. They are usually wrong.... but you can't change their mind or wait around for them to come around.
I hope that in time he will give you his real reason for leaving. But until then, you have to live your life. As hard as it is, you need to think about YOU for a change, and how do YOU want to live the rest of your life.
He did go thru a major heart-attack and Near Death Experience, so sometimes he blames it on that. He also connected with an old (girl)friend on FB and I think he felt a connection with her; pretty sure they are "dating" although she lives out of state. We did marry young, but we have always had such a great bond. He just keeps saying he needs to follow his "Path" but won't explain what that means. It's so hard getting over the fact this is it!