Yeh, easy to break when you aren't in the same house or state! So, almost immediately.

When I wasn't in the mood I figured 5-10 minutes kept him so happy or he bitched for days. It was easier and once I started I really enjoyed it.

For me he asked me to be his girlfriend before we even had sex. I admired that. How much he's changed. If he treated me the way he does on our first date I wouldn't have liked him.
So lets just say even though I am not being treated well he still is rather demanding about needing sex.
Part of my history involves promiscuity. When I got clean and sober a few years ago I was celibate, I mean I hadn't had a boyfriend in a few years when he and I got together. So basically what is breaking it for me is to realize that it is not healthy to have that sexual attachment with someone who is not healthy for me. Though I've been overlooking that and hurting myself.
I didn't want casual sex anymore, and this is what is has become with him because there is really no intimacy, no honest exchange of feelings and thoughts. He is not capable, I am.

I dont' want to run out and find someone else as he is suggesting. Basically he is being mean and still says he needs sex and I say don't let me stop him and he accuses me of wanting him to be with someone else. It feels so hurtful.

Thank you very much for your replies.

I've been forced to be celibate for over 18 years. My former husband just wasn't interested in sex and told me he had health issues with it. I believed him like a schmuck --- not realizing that he was having sex with his regular fishing partner...Lol

Now I really feel like a schmuck for being so trusting.