Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Loved1 04/03/2008

How do/did you break the sex hook to your ex? How long did it take?

deleted_user 04/03/2008

was talking with my friend on the phone when i seen this and he said it been so long, he need a road map and direction.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

There has been no sex since he said he will always love me, but he's not "in love" with me. Gag.....

deleted_user 04/03/2008

Oh man this is so funny. I feel like a 12 year old now about sex " Gross what? That thing goes where? It seemed normal not so long ago.

pattongb 04/03/2008

The crazy thing is, im hornier than ive ever been.

I mean its only been 3 months, shoot I went almost that long when I was married all the time and I was never this horny.

Something about being divorced that drives the hormones nuts......

I'll get through it im sure..LOL.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

Probably "hornier" because it's not "there" right in front of ya anymore. Ya have to try a lil harder. Heh . Because I feel somewhat the same..

deleted_user 04/03/2008

I'm not divorced yet, so if STBX came around offering to pleasure me, I'd tell him, no matter how much I WANT it, I'd much rather hang myself with a celibate rope.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

My desire is there. I just wonder if I'll ever get to that place with someone again. IT's seems like such a thing. My friends say not to worry, but really, I do. Does anyone else?

deleted_user 04/03/2008

My wife went ofsex with me at the same time she bega having affairs. I felt so bad I slept on the couch. I blamed myself. I soon realised it was not my fault she enjoyed sex with other men and was loyal to them.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

I keep wanting to attack him. I guess I'm not there or maybe it makes me feel good that I'm the one in charge. But then it's only been once in 3 months. Being 40 and single is no fun!

pattongb 04/03/2008

Your wrong Hurting, being 40 and single CAN BE FUN!

You just arent there yet! You will be, then you will get to have as much fun as YOU want to have. Noone to tell you what you can and cant do, and who you can and cant do it with!

pattongb 04/03/2008

By the way, im 36, and I find 40 year old women VERY VERY attractive.

40 is nothing.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

Hey I'm 51 and it's been 6 MONTHS after a very active sex life for my whole 29 year marriage. 5 times per week and now nothing. I really do miss it.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

The sad thing is that I slept with him the day before he walked out. Now I can't even stand to look at him Eeeewwwwww keeps flashing before my eyes

deleted_user 04/03/2008

We had very little sex during the marriage. Since we live in separate states we obviously it's been easy. But, when we see one another it's happened.

deleted_user 04/03/2008

My god sld1 you need a medal 29 years and 5 times a week. Most of the fizz left my marriage after the second year.

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