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Loved1
Loved1
How do/did you break the sex hook to your ex? How long did it take?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hmm that would be 6 months before I was asked to leave???
deleted_user
deleted_user
No time at all. The evening he announced he was leaving, he wasn't entitled to it anymore!
solongbye
solongbye
When his lies and abuse finally made me repulsed by the sight of him. He even called after the divorce to see if I wanted company. He now gets std tested on a regular basis, SOOOO glad I'm not involved with that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sex???? What's that???? I'm confused......
deleted_user
deleted_user
the day I found out she was giving it to someone else it broke it for me...but now that I think of it...she broke it about 2 months before then lol
solongbye
solongbye
Louis it is the thing you had to do with your x but now you can be pickier as to who you do this with. You know the thing Jo had herself for last night.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My ex and I divorced last September, he thought that he was entitle to have sex with me even after the split up until 5 months ago when he went to Las Vegas and I know what he was up to there. When he got back and ask for sex I told him "no thank you", I rather play with myself.
pattongb
pattongb
The night I found the guy in our bathroom.

But man do I miss it. Not the sex with her really, just SEX period. Ive been on some dates lately but I just refuse to go down that road till my divorce is final.

But boy oh boy I cant wait till that opportunity cums again after that day........LOL!
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I found out about the OW...I haven't seen him since then!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Me and my ex had sex for a while after the split... that is what left me pregnant. Worst possible thing to happen, although now I love my baby so much the situation is less than ideal, so before sleeping with the ex everyone should consider that these things can still happen. It's so frustrating now, I've never been a very sexual person but the pregnancy has changed that- and now he won't go near me! Ironic really.
Mozart
Mozart
You've said the "red flag" word... it's "sex", and not LOVE.

Validate and love yourself.
You own your body as your highest property.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm doing myself because because I am pickier now......
deleted_user
deleted_user
Right away. The idea of being intimate with him again made my skin crawl. Not a good thing.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The sex was over the day he told me his feelings.
pattongb
pattongb
"I'm doing myself because because I am pickier now......"

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LOL!! Exactly, I have high standards!!