Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
So i was reading the discussion topic and i just randomly thought why not add a whole new one. So Im married and have a gf, both know about each other, however I am doing it differently, I am physically married to my husband and cyber dating my gf, now I have read some people think its a bad idea but it depends on how you approach it, if one or more is online and their online at different times, then you have that amount of time to spend with that person so no one can get hurt because your "ignoring" them, I only spend a certain amount of time online so my husband gets plenty of attention, it makes it easier to talk when we dont spend 24/7 together, i think if you go with having 1 or maybe 2 depends on you, physical relationships and then just leaving anyone else for phone, email, or chat, that it can work, plus on cyber if it doesnt work out, put the person on ignore for a week so things aren't awkward if you try to be friends again, but thats just me.
I have a women that completely satisfies my straight side but I know I will have to live the rest of my life with a void due to my commitment to her. Don't get me wrong we role play and watch bi movies together but that level of intimacy with a guy is not there.
I don't think anyone including myself were trying to unvalidate your feelings, your thoughts, or your post or anyone elses. I hope you didn't take it that way. For many of us bisexuality can be tough, both men and women. I see women that post with very similar issues as us guys, but it does seem more acceptable in society for women to be together than guys.
I am happy that you and your husband has found something that works for the two of you and I find it absolutely amazing that he respects, supports, and meets all of your needs. He is a special man. I think I commented on a post similiar to this one that we are each entiltled our own book and how we choose to write it, share it, or whatever is up to each one of us. My wife and I have a mutual agreement for what works for us as you do.
Did someone say BOOBEESSSS?
You're right though, JeepGuy - I've heard the same from other bisexual men before, that finding guys for partners is really tough because it's not very accepted to be a bisexual man in this culture. And I suspect if Gay men are as uncomfortable with bisexual men as Lesbians are with bisexual women (just had THAT bite me in the a$$ on another group...one of these days I'll learn *sighs*), it puts you in a really tough situation.
I get SO tired of anti-bisexual bias. I really do.