I'm the same way it sucks

i was always straight = totally femme and now i date a lesbian. i fully understand you! everyone who see's my engagement ring says "whos the lucky guy" etc its really annoying. theres are lesbians out there who like femmes maybe try and find some other support groups etc

I understand I am a femme Bisexual woman and I am attracted to femme women to but I have dated Lesbian women that are Butch. I date people for who they are as a person or individual and if we click we click I don't limit a person to their gender .That technically makes me Pansexual but I won't go into that because I am Bisexual and attracted to both men and women even though it matters more to me who they are on the inside then what gender they are. Not alot of people understand Pansexuality so it is easier to just talk about being Bisexual people tend to understand that a little more. I lived most of my life as a straight female I didn't understand that I was really Bisexual until i was in my 20's and fell in love with a woman. Then I started to really date and have intimate relationships with women and to understand my sexuality. I realized that my attraction to men never went anywhere so I understood that i was Bisexual and Femme I felt comfortable being Femme all the time in my relationships with women and with men . However I tend to attract women that are Butch because I am their type but I actually like the girly girls like myself. It is hard to get noticed by femme girls though that are into femme girls.