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Sabotage

Braveredhead
Braveredhead

I swear my bc is trying to sabotage me. I have told him a million times I don't like scary movies. I feel like he wants to watch them more around me bc I don't like it. It's almost everyday. I asked him if it's scary he says no not really blah nlah I said why are you lying are you trying to sabotage me? He says I'm making up stuff. I hate him but he won't leave my life.  I was fine happier when he was gone. I was lonely but he hurts me! What do I have to do I don't want to hear about scary movies or see them. Why does he do this to me. Is he trying to kill me?

kary.aa
kary.aa
Try to come to an understanding with him. If that doesn't work, try slowly eliminating from your life. If he hurts you he's not worth it. Find another guy that's worth it. Get support. Try to stay as far away from him as much as possible
OlderCPer
OlderCPer
Do you own where you live, do you rent in your name? Is he on the lease, does he live there?

If its your lease and he just couch hops you can take legal action to have him trespassed from your home and then take an Order of Protection out on him. All you have to do is go down to your local Precinct and ask the Desk Sgt. what paperwork you need to fill out to get those things done.

You have power, you don't just have to stand and let him terrorize you, you can make him get out.
arfie
arfie
Here I go, flaunting my acronymic ignorance again. . . What is a "bc" in this context?

Whatever it is, hope you find a way around the bc sabotage. Whatever the source of the sabotage, it is no fun constantly having the rug pulled out from under you.
Braveredhead
Braveredhead
Bf
MayB
MayB
Speaking entirely from my own experience I find life to be more meaningful when I can stay in my power and not be constantly giving it to others. If you do this routinely with your "BF" the bigger question is why?
MarleneJ
MarleneJ
This is abuse. He is not listening to how you feel, or being caring in any way, shape or form. It will not improve, because he does not want it too.

I agree, time to part ways. Move him out, or move yourself.

PS. Why can't you just walk out or go to another room when he has these movies on? I cannot take horror either. No one could make me watch it, I would not allow anyone to have that power over me. Leave the home, if necessary. He is not getting it, so you need to take the initiative!
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