Does anyone else's mood tank when they've had surgery and start taking pain meds (opioids)? I feel just plain awful and in pain b/c I'm sure the pain meds are at the root of the problem. I'm afraid to take too much, too little, too often ... but this pain is unbearable. What if surgeons could put us in partial and temporary comas whilst our bodies heal? Yeah, I'd like that. 5 days in a coma. No pain meds, no mood fluctuations, no time worrying about how quickly (or not) I'm healing....just food for thought.
We have been married 25 years, I have lived through his porn addiction, the countless lies, an affair, almost loosing our business of 23 years because of his depression and then immigrating across the world to start all over again, through all of the above I have stuck by his side! The older he gets the more insecure, difficult, moody, irritable and super sensitive. I find myself constantly...
It has been a long time since on this site but I have hit a rough spot and just need support just very hesitant. I guess baby step is the way to go.