I'm looking for advice. I might end up needing back surgery. I have lordosis a condition of the spine called scoliosis of the lumbar, and the hubby said he can't afford the high cost of co pay that surgery would cost....but I will most likely get around 5,000 from my school to help pay for bills and things....the hubby said I can't use my own money to pay for my surgery and that I have to spend almost all of my money on his bills. I know we constantly can't afford things but this is affecting my health. I am in constant agony back pain and have been popping ibuprohen lately ever since the CVS pharmacist said it woudln't interact with my psych meds when my pdoc said the only pain killer I was allowed was tylenol extra strength and that shit doesn't do anything. I went by CVS pharmicists advice because they said the ibuprohen would not interact with my geodon at all.....What would you do if you were me. Would you tell your hubby he's not allowed any of your money because you might need it for surgery or would you be selfless and continue to be in pain to save your hubby from his debts from his past marriage. He is still digging out his hole he created himself and he's been using my money to do it. And it just can't go on like this any longer. My health should come first damn it!