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time to boot her out

Maybe she was just trying to get you to walk around the neighborhood and figured that teasing you might work.

My friends and I tease each other all the time. It's not out of hate- it's just teasing.

what's a woose? maybe it was a compliment.

Don't speak too soon, friends often find things about us we are afraid to address. I wouldn't say she's being "incredibly mean" by just saying you're a "wuss".

You've known her for 9 years I think its allright for you guys to skip pleasantries. But one thing is for sure, we dont know the context of what you're talking about, and hey, in my opinion, nothing wrong with taking some walks anyway, I go all the time for fun. It is really enjoyable.

You want to know something really mean? One of your best friends of 7 years starts hitting on your ex girlfriend of 3. This girl also happens to be your first love and he knows the whole situation. That's fucking mean.

I agree with Gemi, shes probably just teasing you to get you out of the house, again something I wouldn't call "incredibly mean"

sorry this happened princess, sometimes our friends can be cruel to us and not realize what they are doing. Have you talked to her about it? I would think anyone who is a friend for that many years is still a friend.

Sorry that happened to you tree......but I feel so violated.....and my self esteem is bad enough. I wish she'd just appologize and say she was sorry. I can't kick her out.....she's helping the daughter clean that pig stye of hers and is actually doing me a service by helping me clean my house. I just wish she wouldn't be so mean to me while she was here.....my husband of two years and boyfriend of six years won't even stand up to her and make her appologize to me. He is on her side. He too thinks I am a wuss. I am so upset and scarred by all of this.

Princess

why is she in your house ? Tell her to scoot ! You can find better friends then that if she is mean to you xo

I think you should consider what she is saying. You and I have talked some and I realize some of what you are going through. But you have to stand up for yourself....if no one else will. So... are you telling us that her cleaning your house is worth the insults? I have a friend that does the same thing to me, but I don't really care about what he thinks. P.S. have you told her she hurt your feelings? Because if you have, and she still doesn't care, then I agree with daisyrose....Boot her tail out of your house. And when you do tell her that you have taken her adivce to not be a "wuss" and now she has to leave!!

Princess, you know I love you but I am going to be hones..........as usual..........(I do agree with Gemi and Tree AGAIN) but I also believe that either because of your BPD or BD you are extremely sensitive in ALL areas of your life. Honestly, the things that you get upset about are horrible for you but in reality, TO ME, would be very minimal. I think that you take things very personally and you need to take some time to relearn DBT and the ways you can be stronger and advocate for yourself.

You have to stop putting that responsibility on your husband or your kids. Most times, when something hurts our feelings, it means it needs attention, Maybe the way things happen or the way people say things stab us a little, but learn from it and change things.

I could only wish that I had only been called a wus in my life time......try being called a fckn bitch every day of your life growing up. Come on girl, toughin up, this is not worth all this emotion, take it outside and walk it off. Hugs

Then shes not a good friend!!!

Ya, Malice, I'm with you.

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