Just leave with your friend - who cares what he says, go anyways.

go with your friend, you're health is more important than him being pissed off or something.

Make plans to go to the hospital with your friend--get some medical help--
You're much more important than that. Go...

Got a hold of my friend and she won't take me either. She said since my temperature is normal she thinks i have the stomach flu, she thinks I am NOT sick enough. I only have one more option and that's my parents and they would have to take a 45 minute drive to take me. After that I have no options left except for my mother in law and I know she won't take me. And now my daughter is complaining her bladder still hurts her and she's taking antibiotics for a uti of all things two in a row. No one cares about us. We could die before someone ever cares. Next time my friend needs help I am going tell her I am too busy to help her even if I am not just to get her back for being cruel to me. In fact, I was supposed to go over to her house and spend the night on Wednesday because she wants me and my daughter;s company. I think i will be the bitch that i am known to be as a Scorpio and cancel on that too.

And when i called the guidance center to get a hold of my pdoc secretary she's not in and then I was crying on the phone of all things and they were gonna direct me to the crisis line and then they put me on hold so long I got hung up on.

Princess, have you tried calling your GP? There is alot of this going around and it is important to just drink lots of fluids and rest as much as possible. I know it seems unbearable and I am sorry. I am sure your friend wasnt trying to be cruel because she has done alot for you in the past. She may be assessing your situation correctly and trying to help you see that.

Hope you feel better.....xo

Oh Princess, don't do anything rash. It must be horrible being so sick and I understand what hell it can be to not be able to keep any liquid down. I know it's a long shot, but maybe if it won't get any better, you should call your parents and have them take you. If it's the only way you can get help, you need to do what you need for YOU.

I'll be thinking of you. xoxo

in the uk we have an online Dr help service called nhs direct do you have something similar you can google or phone? you have my sympathy a Dr should be called out to see you l had something similar and it turned out to be food poisoning it was hellish l had to have special medicine in water

how long have you been ill? I seem to think it has been a long time and I am concerned for you. You could be dehydrated or have your electrolystes out of whack. It really sucks to be sick for so long. Don't do anything impulsive that you will regret later.

Take care and get some help (see a medical doctor) if you need it. You need to care for yourself, even if no one else seems to. Take care of your daughter like you see is best. I know you will. Get well soon!!

It's not up to anyone to tell you whether you're "sick enough", other than a doctor. If you can't get someone to take you, call the emergency people (911 in the US; you don't say where you are).

No one has a right to tell you how sick you are, other than a doctor.

Yes, do as the others say and go with your friend. What your husband is doing is considerend abuse!

Princess, I hope you make it to the doctor soon and feel better. Please, don't do anything rash. It sucks being sick, but suicide is not the answer.

*HUGS*

Forget the husband. Men can be very selfish, and so should you! Let's leave the guy out of the picture for now and concentrate on you. Why are you vomiting? Is it stress induced or do you have a stomac bug? If it's stress related, a warm bath or a song that calms you will do more than all the Imodium in the world. Love yourself & do what's BEST for you, not what will shock hubby out of indifference.
Eat plain toast or crackers, or bread sticks. They tend to help nausea. Please write again as soon as you do this.

Princess....this sounds like a horrific situation. I don't think it's healthy mentally or physically. Why is he controlling you like that?

Princess you should call 911 immediately as you seem to be getting progressively worse quickly. You have to look after you.