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Living up to my potential

Amuseme
Amuseme
So here's the concern in a nutshell:

I have a very unique line of work which I've carved out for myself. I see clients on a regular basis and make a good living. But, I could be also doing workshops on several different topics related to sexuality.

I just have concerns about making these commitments because well I don't know if it will put pressure on me and make me anxious. I've been going back and forth with this for several years. The fact that I'm very sensitive(as in aware) of so many nuances of situations also concerns me. How will I be feeling and so on. I'm realizing that I should go out of my comfort zone and try it. I'm going to respond to a request to do this today. I hope that I don't lose faith that I will be fine.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady
I think it's important to keep Trying new things. It's something I'm currently telling myself daily.
doorknob
doorknob
I think going out of your comfort zone can be a good thing, but also be aware that you may have limits. Over reaching your limits could be a stressor so be careful.
MayB
MayB
Sometimes we have to find out where our boundaries are with new situations. How do we know what is too much or not enough?

I like this mantra I found:

"Out of difficulties will grow new beginnings; trust in the process!"

I'm having similar issues and at the moment I feel like I bit off way more than I can chew.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
If you're able to do workshops that would be a great idea... I imagine they're more affordable for people then private therapy and if you had a few people it would be beneficial to you...

Could you perhaps set a time you might want to try if for and limit the number of clients you saw?... Good for you getting outside your comfort zone!!...xo
mayismerry
mayismerry
That's great your going out of your comfort zone. I agree with knowing your limits.
sadiegirl13
sadiegirl13
Being so self-aware will be helpful in this endeavor. I hope you don't get too anxious - this could be a really good thing! Good luck!!
DoorMAwss
DoorMAwss
These are good responses :) Trust yourself, AmuseMe - you are the one who knows, Gut-instinct, which will be best for you - staying put, or branching out!
spacekat
spacekat
My biggest goal here on DS is to step out of my safety zone and STILL FEEL SAFE. Good for you for giving it a go! I'll bet you're so good at what you do that your anxiety will pale in comparison to your accomplishments! You can do it!
Amuseme
Amuseme
Thank you for the encouragement. The latest the thought holding me back is that I hate going out in the evening when it gets really cold. I guess it's another rationalization!
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