Just think things through before you post. Try to see things from as many angles as possible. Try to see if things were said as a joke between two people who have the same sense of humour. Don't jump to conclusions. Ignore people who are being abusive or stirring things up for their perverted fun. Learn to ignore posts that trigger you. Be prepared to say sorry and re-evaluate people as we all change with our moods.
Forgive yourself for being human. Ask for friendship and love and you will find it.
Love from the very human and vunerable Suze x

I will get better--but I will also try to get the community advisor in here--so she can see all the hate and abuse that's going on.

Every time I see something hurtful--I will try to let her know to check the board

I've already made her aware of the amusement park thread

I want to apologise too. I know I can come across as rude and crude and just a miserable sob. I just want to say that I really do love everyone that is on this board, and would act like a rabid psychotic wolf to protect you from harm. that is me. that is my beast.

I am sorry for being so harsh BP

All is good BP. We all have our moments and anger towards others and is sometimes hard to keep in. Apologies are followed with forgivness from others.
Love to you!
foreal

CuppaJoe...
WOW... if I could find a mate who would "protect me like a rabid psychotic wolf to keep me from harm" .... I'd have a happily ever after life!!!

What a NICE thing to say to the board.

It doesn't really sound that nice. But I guess what I mean is that I would fight with every fibre of my being to protect the ones I love.

I think it's like I said on one of the threads last night, Joes heart is made of gold, sometimes his words don't always have the level of tact they need...lol, but his intentions are always pure...:)

And BPPrincess really seems to mean well too, I've not known her long, but what I've seen I think she means well but gets a bit overzealous sometimes, shes still young, kind of like a diamond in the rough if you will, with a little help learning how to "polish" those rough edges she will SHINE away.

Thank you to both of you for having the courage to apologize. It takes guts.

all is good again right?

oops i'm late for my appt, gotta go

Yeah MHA I slept thru the tact classes in obedience school. lol tact is something that I've been notorious for misplacing and/or selling to get 40's of malt liquor and smokes for me and my friends. Some days I do remember that I keep a small box of it in the hall closet.

maybe I should get a pick of an attack dog for my avatar?

Cuppajoe!! I'm your man! errrr...I mean dog!! Dobies make wonderful attack dogs! And we do let go, unlike pit bulls who latch on forever.
Think about it!! Call my agent!! I'm available for parties, bar mitzvahs and the occasional hippie wedding.