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jessekay
jessekay

So I had to cut someone out of my life and I think it's for the better but it still hurts because I've known her for years she's just too much into herself and self-centered and she uses drugs and doesn't care I can no longer be her friend because she's no longer wants to help herself and get better. I hope she turns a new leaf and gets her life together but for now I cannot entertain her and hang out with her and call her or anything like that sometimes people are toxic in a way that you do not need them anymore she has to somehow wake up and smell the coffee but I'm not trying to talk bad about her because that's beyond but I was trying to make my point. It's okay let to get let go of a connection you have with someone if it's not good for you or your peace of mind I just have to deal with it in my own way I'm better off not being friends with her. I think I did the right thing

bbr00ks78
bbr00ks78
Yep you did the right thing it sounds like. I've had to do the same to a lot of people that used to be in my life. Your inner peace and happiness come first!
jessekay
jessekay
Aw thanks I think I did the right thing too to cut someone off out of your life that is toxic is doing the right thing and in my case I think I did the right thing it doesn't matter how long of a time you've been friends with a certain person if you realize they're not for you they are not for you
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Big hug Jesse.... I agree that sometimes you do have to let people go who will bring us down

Also it's a good thing not to enable some behaviours or illnesses .. It's the best thing that you can do.... xo
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady
It’s a strength to be able to recognize when something needs to change. Cutting someone out or changing the dynamics of relationship boundaries are healthy steps. Difficult for sure. Hugs.
jessekay
jessekay
It's a peace of mind that I let it go I mean the friendship thanks for the input
Bobbyshorts
Bobbyshorts
I'm glad you feel better. Someone needed proof of current employment so I put down my LLC, Jennifer Gato Properties LLC, and made myself the regional manager. Jenny is the cat. I want to put up a website where the entire process of buying a house is told from the cat's perspective lol. I am by no means lazy but have not been working for a boss.
Your friend needs to hit bottom, soon, if she is to survive. i finally turned my back on two exes who hooked up with each other. I have been with my gf since September. so I was hurt pretty badly. They just about got mad at me because I didn't jump high enough for joy. I love my gf very much, everything is good. I know what it is like to have to shun someone.
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