zebra, that sounds pretty stressful to me, for someone who is ok and at the top of their game! Not for someone who is suffering bp symptoms which make it difficult to work on addition to raising 3 kids!

How about starting your own cleaning service. I have a close friend that is BP and she has about 4 houses a week that she cleans and makes good money. Now these houses are doc's or lawyers houses but she gets paid well. And cash!!

I guess it's all in how you look at it; everyone can fit somewhere and for those times of stress I just keep taking my meds and muddle through it. :)

I think chunta sha; has a great idea, work at your own pace, no people to distract you and you can work at your own pace.

Lmiklaucie is correct.
the state rather pay you than to house him and/or provide in home care at cost of state.

Sign up for program. again the state will pay you to babysit your husband and to run errons on his behalf.

Convert your din rm into bed rm and rent it out or you could move into din now extry bd rm and rent out your formor bed rm.

Obtain 1 or 2 houses per wk to clean. a small 2 bd w 1 bth rate starts at $65.00 for 4hr per house. I flatly refuse to clean mobile homes because tight spaces - more clutter and junk to temporary move to be able to clean.
I will not do spring & fall cleaning nor do windows nor clean out closets, oven, refg.
those services are extry service-that is charged/paid by the task.

Take up lawn service. mow 2 small yards per wk. rate starts at $25.00, 35.00,$50.00 ,
$65 to 75 for 2 to 2.5 hrs if you half to bag leaves or grass trimmings and/or sweep sidewalks and/or sweep drive way.

Work wk ends or 2 days during reg work days as cashier or waitress.

hire debt consultant group and have them to reduce your bills and intress. you will make 1 mthly pymt to the debt consultant group and they make mthly payments on your debt.
The group will also show you how to rebuild your credit rateing.

Being that you and your mate have disability, have you had your offspring tested for illness and to see if they will become ill w/in thier child or young adulthood ?
the state will also pay you per child for you to take care of your children who have illness.

Children or meal tickets & houseing and tax deduction.
Thur children obtain state assistances & houseing.
your mate can even apply for section 8 houseing.

I assume that your mate has SSDI and that money that is for his care and % for his liveing exspense is being use for other things instead of medical related care for - on him.
I also assume that your liveing on your children trust funds and/or college funds.

Use index cards and advertize for work. post cards around your neighbourhood.

Best Wishes.

I find that working keeps me centered as well. Recently I lost my job due to stupidity on my part; in the time I ws off I seriously reconsidered my career choice and just my life in general; alot of things were chaging and all that was sure was all of a sudden either in question or gone.
I have managed to get myself out there again; working and doing what really does make me happy. Taking care of patients, I am wiser and also stronger in ways I honestly did not realize about myself. So for me, what works is being of service to others so that even if it is for 8 or 12 hours I don't concentrate on my BP. It gives me also a sense of accomplishment and that keeps me the depression away, being tired after work helps me to just let go and wind down

Crash test dummy?

I am not living on my kids! And my husbands check all goes on bills!

having 3 kids and a disabled husband is a job. Are the children old enough to help out at home? Seems like alot of your stress may be taken to work where you feel you still have some control over the situation. You can quit a job or yell at co-workers, but you cant quit a family. Finding a healthy balance seems to be the answer. Are you getting any help from friends or family so that you may have some time for yourself? Are you on meds? Seeking help from a doctor? Alot of questions need to be addressed. Easy for me to say, but I wish you the best.

A teacher's aide could be good because we teachers take our work home with us and you wouldn't be able to. I find having dealt with mental illness that sometimes it gives me a good insight into kids in rough situations. But it is stressful for some. Then again, I'd kill myself if I had ti sit in an office. We're all very different.

yo-yo technician?

My kids are too young to help out much. I was on many differant meds, none worked, so my dr said there's nothing else she can do.

I just wanna get a head of my field

I would take a low key receptionist job. phones, low computer work, mingling with associates, maybe an small isnruance company. Something with a Head secrary who would do the big stuff.??

i chose to be a farmer so i could be outstanding in my field... LOL!