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Also make sure that you still have money for you and your family.
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Also make sure that you still have money for you and your family.
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Any time you lend money to anybody, it is a risk....if you can't afford to lose the money if for some reason they don't pay it back, don't loan it. That money is for you. Be sure you don't need it to invest in something that could help you maintain your life in the future -- do you need a car yourself, do you need savings for car repairs, home repairs, other unforeseen emergencies?
I have made the same kind of gestures of kindness before, and regretted it soon afterwards, when I could have used the money and needed it for something else.
Just be sure that won't happen once you let go of that money, it may not come back around for some time.
That is why I am wondering if a Good Deed should be this big or should I be happy with smaller actions. ya know is this my bp talking or is it the right thing to do
Give it a month, see if you still feel the same way ?
If you buy them a car..I would have you pay cash for the car,get the title turned over to them,have them buy the car from you for 1 $..that way,nothing can come back on you if they renig on payments,or get in an accident ,and are not insured.
DO NOT co-sign,or just give them a car,that you put the down payment on,and they take over the payments...that could be disaterious for your financial rateings,if they find themselves in a posistion where they can't make payments.
Doing a good deed,is a thoughtful and careing thing for you to do...but not at the exspence of putting your own financial security on the line.
Then Insurance, Gas etc .
Could they afford the running costs ??
This allows them to pay less if they have to and not feel like all is hopeless because they missed a payment. I myself have a problem where I feel like if I miss a single payment there is no point in trying to catch up, instead just let it go.
With these things all in line then you are safe (provided you can afford to lose the money if they don't pay) they dont feel like a charity case, and they dont feel trapped into payments either. Trapped is a bad feeling even if neccessary.
Just like if you give them the car and they never get insurance. Most police will just take the car away from them. Who will bail out the vehicle then?
If they can't afford a piece of junk car can they really afford the gas needed to run the machine?