I am saying a prayer now. I am so sorry. Please talk yo us and let us know how she is and how you are.

Personally I'm crappy and scared. If I lose her I don't know what's going to happen I'm already so suicidal and wanting to see all my friends. I'm so scared I don't think I have stopped crying since I found out.

Is there someone close by you can call to come and be with you? I wish I could come sit with you. I'm so sorry, really. I know what it is like to lose a friend or think that you may be losing one. The waiting and not knowing is the hardest thing. If you are feeling suicidal and that crappy maybe you need to go to the ER or call your doc, because I know you're concerned about your friend and don't want to miss a phone call about her. Please though call someone to be with you.

I've called a lot of people and left a lot of voicemails (for our prayer chain and to chat) But no I really don't have anyone and tonight is my monday night bowling and unless I hear back I'm going (putting on a fake smile cuz I don't like my team worrying bout me). I just hope I hear something soon. Because of being upset I haven't been home all day til now I went and saw past coworkers and a few friends of mine but came home cuz I knew I needed to get the prayer chain started and I already called people so I decided to post and see what happens. I just hope it helps.

Oleander,
I cant pray anything but gods will, but i can pray for comfort and peace for you and your friends family. I will post your request to my other prayer group not only for your friend but for yourself as well doesnt sound as if you are all to well your self. Please keep it together, rushing to be with your friends will only hurt your friends and family that are here. I am praying double time....)))))))HUG((((((

My cousin was airlifted to a Los Angeles hospital this morning. I will pray for Jess too.

I love you oleander and your friend is lucky to have a friend like you who loves her so much, i will pray for her and you
tons of hugs and love
be strong

I am saying prayers for your friend Jess and her family and for you, too.

Oleander - if there was ever a time to call your mom and ask to spend the night over at her place, this is it. I hope your friend makes it. And whatever happens, good or bad, please have someone watch over you.

Everybody else, please say a prayer for oleander too!

Thanks guys but sadly enough I got the details that someone hit her car and it flipped three times and her seat belt cut her in half. She made it alive to the hospital but died in surgery but thanks for the prayers.

I am so sorry to hear about this. I will keep you and Jess's family in my prayers. HUGS

I'm not one to pray, but you've definetely got some positive energy from me!

SAID THE PRAYER. HOW IN H___ DID YOU LOSE 9 FRIENDS!!!! I AM COMPLETELY SHOCKED AND SORRY ABOUT THIS. I WILL KEEP PRAYING.
LOVE 2 U AND FRIEND, KAYKAY

i'm so terribly sorry, you have my prayer's and your friend also, please don't sit alone, find someone that can be there for you, even if you just want to be silent, don't be alone.

You got it hon...hugs.