there there

Well I respect your opinion..and sometimes I find DS is a trigger,but we are all BP here and shit happens.

As far as clicks..?
The more often you post,the better people begin to know you and familiarity breeds friendships.

Oh and it's good to see you posting again kev,it's been a while

It has been a while, Kev. How are you?

actually, I've seen your posts, key78, and didn't quite know how to respond yet. Some posts I Think about for awhile if I don't have something Useful to say (unless they're funny posts), but I hear you. And remember a lot.

As far as DS, yeah, it's been pretty Sukky lately. Been kinda back and forth that way since early to mid-summer, in it's own way. (sorry, guys - we Do go up and down)

As far as You, I get why you're worried - not necessarily "obsessing" any more than they typical bipolar, but when life piles up, it can get us pretty down about ourselves!

See, I could have commented earlier and said cute things like Think Positive, and It'll Get Better, and stuff like that.

But that's not me. Even if I "know" it's actually true. Life does not stay in a funk forever. But it Feels that way, when nothing is happening, life's not moving, people are down on us, etc.

So let me just Hear you, for now, and not say anything cliche. Sometimes, that's what we're here for. To Listen. To Learn.

And eventually, in spite of the Shit....to Grow.

Mary Anne

True.

I notice you Kev.....havent seen you in a while. I agree with dd though. The more you post and are around, the more comfortable people are and respond to you. I remember when you were here a while back, you had lots of friends and responses.

Hang in there with us..........xo

Hey Kev, this past wk I just returned to DS.
sence, returning,I've been reminded why I had previously choose to depart. Most seem to have need to gather some who are in need in false sence of security. to full fill their inner need they crate a group. gather others to join a click. most I referred to unstable bas hers.
if u opt read their post & reply but don't respond. aw we have opt to click ignore.
Now on flip side. I also believe that DS can be beneficial. it can be a form of support & an outlet to vent, journal,share, past time etc...
Ignore the bushers who are famous for gang bashing, followed by protection themselves from being removed right before r shortly after they report a person.
I enjoy Facebook & post - replys on DS that catches my attention &/or I see humor in whatever on DS.
I returned to re connect w 2 people.
I'm glad to see you back.
X's

Kev -- I am sorry you are being triggered by DS right now. Been there -- taken a break.

Overall, I do find this place quite supportive.

**HUGS**

yo dude come to my site it isnt all drama like
www.bipolar4lifesupport.com
lol sis jan
anyways if u all donmt like me for this i dont care lolove goes along way with me we have support and love and caring there
\jany

sorry, correction on my previous post on this one, really meant to say that it is "true" that it "can" be a trigger, I just have had two people delete me from their friends list, have no idea why, I am really hurt by it, have tried reaching out to them to ask if I had upset them in any way and try to apologize if that was in order and received no response....ouch (slinks away, tail between legs)

Um I like ds. But sometimes people say things that trgger me. I try to ignor it and go on and I try to remember that these people have cut me slack when I've had episodes I should cut them flack when they have there's.

When I read something that I find triggers ....I try not to let it get to me. I chat with my friends, read and reply to the post that matter to me. I'm looking to this site as a positive thing for me. You have to filter bad things out of everything including DS.

Makes lot of friends and form your own clique.

I have layed low for awhile myself. There has been a lot of drama on here lately, and instead of being a part of it, I have distanced myself, for my own self preservation.