In my opinion you, you should be thankful (which it sounds like you are) to your husband for getting you something but I am of the mind why buy me something if I am not going to use it?? I am very honest with my hubby if I don't like something...its not that I don't appreciate what he buys me, etc, but after a while they usually can pick up what you like and don't like-at least you hope. Every once in a while, I get something goofy...but for the most part, he is getting better at figuring out what I do and don't like. Don't feel bad about it...you know as well as I do that if the situation was reversed, they would say hey thanks and toss it in the back closet.

that may be the "female" version of what should happen....but as a guy, if you wanted something else you should have told him what you wanted. Brownies, okay, so he thought he would go above and beyond and this is a bad thing? Just tell him you dont like yellow

give him a list of ten things he can always buy you and he can pick and you ll always be gappy with

1. a pan of brownies
2. a new video game
3. a hannah montana watch
4. themed underwear
5. themed panty and bra set
6. jewelry
7. a singing hannah montana card
8. the spark (it's a diet book i been dying to have)
9. a subscription to club penguin
10. an itunes card

make yourself like it, see good it in it & appreciate the gesture.

turn it into PJ"s

Seriously you got a gift which is a lot more tha the rest of us aroumd here ever get or ever will fucking get. Be happy for that and hush

No kidding, you should be careful and not say too much negative about it. I made that mistake once and really crushed the guy in my life at the time and didn't mean to.

So wear the shirt some night, do something really silly and act like it is the sexiest thing that he has ever bought you and pretend that it is a teddy or something equally romantic, then come on to him and have really great glorious sex, then when he comments about it and the door is open, be honest about the fact that you aren't crazy about it, but that you are willing to be supportive of his gifts and affection anyway. He will take it much better for you to tell him what to get if he wants to get you something the next time.

But I mean seriously, have fun with the shirt, maybe cut the neck out of it so that it is low and shows some cleavage, then tie it over the shoulders or something, but don't block the design, and get a thong to match it. Be creative, he will definitely be appreciative, and both of you will be happier in the long run.

O M G

are you ever happy with your husband? if not, get out of the marriage. so he bought you something you don't like, at least he was thinking of you for god sakes. he probably thought you wouldn't like him to make you a pan of brownies since you are on a diet.

I am sure he thought he was doing a good thing when he bought you the shirt. I would do anything to get any type of gift from my husband right now. I understand you're not wanting to wear it, but there must be somewhere you can wear it, even just once, to make him think you like it or at least to let him know you're thankful for his gift. Just my opinion.