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some one very close to me dead .

godisawesom
godisawesom
i have been blaming myself for almost a year i was in the room with this person he was snoring when i was in the room i left out for about 5 minutes my son noticed a loud snoring sound and asked could something be wrong i went back in the room and tried to wake him and i could not i called the ambulance when they arrived they resusutated him took him to the hospital still unresponsive he was on life support the docters said he had a massive brain hemmorage too this day i been feeling that it was my felt if i would have went in the room sooner maybe he would still be here please help
godisawesom
godisawesom
keep praying it helps god will see you through
Scott46
Scott46
I know. I beat mydself up too about my Mom's cancer. But t he what if game can go on forever. It was his time to go. You might want to check out a bereavement support group at a local hospice or hospital. It helps to talk to those who've been through it too.

And no offense but maybe add some punctuation to your sentances.

God bless
OLDBIKER
OLDBIKER
Please look at this from a medical standpoint for a moment.
Usually those who have a massive brain hemmorage can not be saved. From the time this hemmorage started, there is a time limit window. After that window is passed, the chances of survival are very slim.

You should not blame yourself for what happened to your friend. You were there with him, stepped out for a few minutes and his passing was in God's hands, not yours.

I hope you find peace about this my friend. There are some things we can fix and many things we can't fix. I have been there too.

God Bless
Oldbiker
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's not your fault and you can't keep beating yourself up for it. It's very normal right now to blame yourself, but hopefully with time you'll stop. Keep the faith. My prayers are with you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I truly know the feeling. My husband had a heart attack while taking his morning shower and I slept. Not that I was usually up at that time but I can't help but blame myself for not getting help sooner. I woke up once heard the shower but didn't look at the time. What if he had called me to help him? What if I had gotten up 15 minutes earlier would he have survived? I live with this every day and have been for two years.

Hang in there. We have all heard that statement and thought "Yea right" but the hurt will decrease wtih time.
godisawesom
godisawesom
my friend was unresponsive from the time the ambulance picked him up from my home the doctor said he had a massive brain hemmorrage he was on life support the docter said after the third day he was brain dead i still wonder if he was really brain dead and if he was why did the docters wait so long to say after putting him on life support i felt so lost it seem like every thing happen so fast i was with him for so long in my life it felt like nails were going down my throat when he dead if someone is really brain dead can they breath on there on please help
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