I am so very sorry for your loss. My sister died unexpectedly in her sleep, she was in her late 50s. I can't say that I understand exactly how you feel, but I can say that I understand many of the elements that go into how you are feeling.

For many of us, getting through the first days/weeks were the hardest part. Do you have somebody who can help you take care of things? My brother in law leaned heavily on his brother for support.

Lots of us here have joined bereavement groups in real life; hospitals are good places to look for them. It really helped me after my father died.

Losing a spouse is a very special type of loss. There is a widows and widowers group here; they are a very welcoming group, and there is no requirement that members had to be married at the time of the death. This group is there for support long after the pain of the passing has been managed; there will be many more issues for you to deal with, and that group is great for helping!

Again, I am sorry for your loss, but pleased to meet you.

Gentle hugs

Thankyou for your kind words. I will look for as much help as I can..

My family have been a great help. I am dreading Friday which is the day of the funeral. Sue wanted a woodland burial.

Big hug for you Keith.... I am so very sorry for your loss and the pain that you're in.... It must have been a terrible shock.
At this point I think all that you can do is keep putting one foot in front of the other.... I would continue to reach out to people ...Don't shut yourself off
The Widows and Widowers group is a very good group as Pepper wrote... People there are in different stages of healing
I'll put up a link to it.... Another hug and a blessing.....xo

https://www.dailystrength.org/group/widows-widowers

Thinking of you, I can feel your pain, we all have it when we loose someone we love dearly, it is three months now since I lost the love of my life, the pain is still very raw, time will heal I know but we have to walk this path for now. xxxx

Thankyou for your kind words. X